In the Bible, God says to men and women: Eat breakfast together, but do not share it from the same bowl; share your joy, but do not sip it from the same cup. Like the two strings of a harp, you are separated but also inseparable; like the two pillars of a temple, you are independent but cannot be independent.
This is the idea I like: I am me, you are you, we are together.
But my husband says this is the dregs of Western culture. He emphasized that I was his other half. I said that I am a whole person, not someone's other half.
I have always wondered whether the fourth child has been the "Yongzheng" who was extremely tolerant since he was born?
From Si Age to Prince Yong, what kind of transformation process is involved? And who is the person standing behind him?
The Fourth Master at the beginning is a young man, in a period of transformation, and looks a bit half-baked.
The heroine Nala Minhui, the legitimate wife of Prince Yong, is a woman who is like a cypress tree, the type that I love madly.
What everyone sees is actually a story with a known ending, so the ending is not important. What is important is the moment of falling in love, a few thoughts, a look, and the years spent together...
This article is literary and artistic, neither political nor historical.
It's all a small perspective, a small love affair. Therefore, adults who want to see big scenes, political struggles, and the gloomy palace, please take a detour.
I wanted to cancel the VIP of the last chapter "True Epilogue", but it seems that this function is not available, so I put some very important words that I think need to be explained here. You don't have to buy the last chapter if it's not necessary.
1. Why choose Nala as the heroine?
I once read an article that said that people who write about clear travel and people who see clear travel are playing a very simple game, role-playing. You're right, I wrote it because I couldn't find the fourth character I liked, nor could I find the heroine I liked. I chose Si's first wife because I am a Si party member and I will never change no matter when or where I am. And his wife has lived with him for forty years, accounting for 80% of his life. If it were not for his tenacious will and inexhaustible love, the Nala family in history could only be more painful than Minhui in Qingqiu.
There is no doubt that Si is successful, and Si's success is the success of his team, including his wife, children, staff and allies. So I can be sure that this woman will not be mediocre.
I also read a hypothesis, what would be the effect if the fourth wife was Bafujin? It can almost be concluded that he must either divorce his wife or not become emperor. Because this road is too difficult, without spiritual support and companionship, it will be even more difficult to reach the end alone. The eighth master's wife doesn't know how to assess the situation and cares too much about her own demands and desires. Of course these are just my personal understandings. There is no way to verify what the real person is like, unless I actually wear it.
Second, why travel through time?
I saw some readers saying, "The author seems to be in the United States. I really don't know why she wrote Qingchuan." This is because some people read the modern novel "Having a Child" first and then read Qingqiu, while some only read the modern novel. There are also readers who commented that the heroine of this article is too negative. If nothing changes, what else is she going to do?
My understanding of the writing form of time travel is as follows:
If you simply change history to escape reality, that is not what I understand as time travel. Of course, you can also travel in this way, but the level is slightly shallower. Just like I think that the main conflict is the issue of fighting with other women, the handling of this conflict is not deep enough. Of course, there is also the issue of jealousy in this article, but this is just one of the many issues that need to be dealt with in the relationship between men and women.
What I understand as time travel is to look at a certain issue from a different angle and standpoint, and then think about what people in the moment want to think and do. The thinking I brought out in the article is that no matter how social systems, behavioral norms, moral judgments, lifestyles... All the rules and regulations change, people are still the same when facing themselves, facing their surroundings, facing their lovers, facing their children, and facing all the good and evil in life. We are also afraid, we are also brave, we are at a loss, we swear, we all want to have beautiful love, a perfect marriage, excellent children, and a vivid self. Even if you know the ending, so what?
Knowing how to face reality is always more important than changing unchangeable history. And personally, I think facing reality is much more positive than changing history, so I never think Minhui is negative. She does what she should do and loves the people she wants to love. She may have hesitated, but she always persists, and self-discipline is definitely a good quality.
The rest of the postscript contains spoilers, so I won't go into details here. Those who are interested can choose to purchase and watch.
[Tips for reading the article]: According to the reports of many people who have read this article, they will have a serious sense of exclusivity after reading it, that is, they can no longer stand the article about a fourth man messing around with his concubines and wild flowers. What's more, I decided not to read any other articles by a certain fourth person again... Well, I take full responsibility for this, it's all my fault. But every time I hear such words, I will chuckle for a long time.
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November 2009
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Contents page: "The Street Where the Wind Lives" Yukiko Isomura
Chapter 66: "Water Lily" Jia Pengfang
Chapter 117: "Sunset in the Forbidden City" The Thinker
Purpose: Even if you are dealt a bad hand, you should try your best to play it well
