Love and marriage are two different things. Some people say that if there is love, there will be marriage. In fact, this is not the case. Sometimes even if there is love in marriage, it cannot withstand the hardships of life. In the ordinary life of tea, rice, oil and salt, love will slowly dissipate. Sometimes if you hold on too tightly, you will lose too much. Just like the sand in your hand, the tighter you hold on, the more it will flow away.