Not Replying to Messages

1: About cause and effect We cannot force others to like us, but we can force others to dislike us. Why do you hate it? Things develop over time, such as a young lady's uncontrollable temper or self-centered consciousness. When others alienate us and isolate us, we must first understand why. If we cannot figure out our own position, then changing the environment will not change the way others treat you. Maybe your childhood experience is the original sin that made you a bad person, but behind everyone, there is a less than happy childhood, so we are not qualified to let others treat us well. Two: About the name "I like the name "No Reply to Messages" very much. The reason is that I feel that most of the pain I have experienced so far comes from feelings. In a relationship, I equate the word reply with response and care. In "Little", the person who did not reply to me is the hope of breaking away. In "Early", the person who did not reply to me is the hope of a long-term relationship. Relationship, the failure to reply to me in "High" was an act to prevent the collapse. I hated that the message I sent on the other end of the dialog box showed that it had been read. For a long time, for a long time, I held my phone but didn't receive even a period. At first, not replying to the message made me sick. In the middle period, not replying to the message made me despair. In the later stage, it was not me who did not reply to the message. I have changed my personality, thoughts and other stubbornness, but I can't go back. One day after that, you occasionally thought of my existence and casually sent "Are you there?". I could only receive the dialog box in my sleep. I remembered a sentence in it: It's not that people who hurt themselves and do self-harm are emotional patients, but real emotional illnesses. The patient's self-physiological torture is just to attract a little attention, and then, what really ends him/her is that these calls for help are ignored and gradually accumulate to a certain degree of despair. Many patients with emotional illness cannot get rid of it until death. It may be a mental cancer. For patients with emotional illness, self-harm is just an "entry-level" outlet. , It can produce more than just this one behavior. The original reason why I like the name "Not Replying to Messages" is just because it caused me to suffer from emotional illness." Three: About people Every adolescent child carries extreme malice and extreme kindness. In this contradictory process, the final evaluation of good or bad is whether the greater malice or the greater kindness. Four: About hope I hope we can move forward. I don't ask for happiness in the end. I just hope that we won't be confused about where our shortcomings and bad points are. I have always believed that seeing yourself clearly > everything good and bad In the world outside the ward, the air will never smell like disinfectant. Intention: I hope that everyone who has appeared can walk through the dark backgrounds one after another like clearing the unlimited stream dungeon, and then return to a family in the name of warmth.