Delay means indulging. "The Book of Songs·Wei Feng·Meng" writes, "A scholar's tardiness can especially be said to be (together with "take off"); a woman's tardiness cannot be said to be (together with "take off")". To indulge in beauty is to indulge in beauty.
True love is regardless of gender, age, or distance. If you love, please love hard and don't care about all the rumors. The person you care about is the most important.