All the immortals said that Qingyao could ascend to immortality only because Lord Zhuohua had improved his cultivation and gained enlightenment. If you can become an immortal, you should be grateful. However, due to your wishful thinking, you actually got emotional.
Who is Lord Zhuohua? Heartless, joyless, and happy to be alone, if she would really fall in love with someone, there are many goddesses in the Nine Heavenly Palace whose beauty and cultivation are above Qingyao, so how could it be her turn?
This obsession was just a joke, and Qingyao didn't realize it. He didn't realize how ridiculous it was in the discussions among the immortals.