How should I put it, this life is either determined by man or by nature. I remember the year when I was just born, there was heavy snow falling outside, a Taoist priest took me from my grandmother's hand, shook his head and said: "This girl's life is too hard, it's up to God, not people, so you can give birth to her and take care of her!" At that time, my life was no longer up to me. As long as something happens at home, I will be the one who gets blamed...