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The reality of this article is better than the bloody novel series.
A few years later, the person next to her pillow became Mr. Gu, and Feng Qinghui always flaunted herself as a bad wife.
She used to be jealous and furious at those Yingying Yanyan who coveted him, but one day she suddenly realized that her starting point was too high in the early stage, and later it seemed that divorce was the only way to go.
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After reading Fei Mu Fei Shi's novel "Qinghui", I didn't read the text carefully, but the title "Little Jasmine, the Beloved of My Life" attracted me very much. The full story has nothing to do with little Jasmine. After finally reading the extra chapter, it turns out that little Jasmine is Qinghui's daughter. I couldn't help but wonder, whose voice was this title spoken in? Originally, I thought it was the heroine who was called in the male protagonist's voice. Since it is a daughter, is it the father calling, the mother calling, or both.
I have to read it as a bloody documentary novel. First of all, it has coincidences and accidents that are not often encountered in life, but it cannot be said that such plots will not appear in life. In addition, it is documentary, indeed documentary, and can even be said to be very realistic. The relationship between the characters is complex yet simple, it's just you and me, you and the other woman. The beginning of the novel is the established fact of marriage between the two. I like the long history of family affairs, which is another reason why I opened the novel. I have to say that I was actually very attracted to it at the beginning, not least because of the writing and the protagonist's IQ. The little things described are all everyday, and the humorous tone made me laugh inexplicably.
I once couldn't understand that there was a "contrived" woman like Qinghui in my life, who would suddenly send her husband to buy boiled peanuts in a street late at night, who would lose her temper due to menstrual pain, who would be inexplicably unhappy, and who would be inexplicably bad-mouthed. For me, I can't stand it. I feel that the friendship with my husband will be "failed" sooner or later. I also feel that I will never become such a person. But I am neither others, how can I judge others. Maybe one day, I will meet such a person, and I will unconsciously vent my "little temper" to him. In short, life is unpredictable. With that said, I can understand Qinghui. Of course, I still don't agree with blindly acting. No one can tolerate your little temper forever. I am a person who likes to give myself dignity. So when I saw what Qinghui was doing, I would hold my breath, fearing that Gu would not be used to it the next second, but once Gu was used to it, I felt something was wrong. This comes from my shallow understanding of human nature. When things go wrong, there must be monsters. Qinghui's actions are more like tests. Since the suspicion was buried in her heart, she tried her hands little by little. Something is wrong when the man is unusually good-natured towards his wife. I really don't believe that there are such good men in the world. The perfect husband can only be the person you set for yourself.
I often wonder what their contradiction is. Is it another woman? I think the other woman is no longer important. Of course, the other woman is also very hateful. Her fault is another matter. Frankness is indispensable in marriage. No one likes to feel left in the dark. I tend to live an honest life, but of course there are bound to be lies in the adult world. Ji Xianlin said, "It's rare to be confused." Living in confusion can indeed make embarrassment and frustration go away, but maybe because of professionalism, a bad debt is even more embarrassing. What's even scarier is that there is no way to change it. Gu's fault was that he was too self-willed. He was too sure that he could handle everything. He hid the past, but his methods were not clever, and even left a legacy. Qinghui is not stupid. As a woman, she is willing to live in confusion, but she can't let it go. This kind of feeling cannot be changed by a word from a reader or bystander. For example, if a person knows whether drinking water is warm or cold, the last thing he cannot control is his mind. I hate the concealment and whitewashing in marriage, and white lies cannot change the hurtful fact. This is one of Gu's biggest mistakes, and it is also the biggest problem in their marriage in my opinion. Low-level whitewashing is more eye-catching and arouses suspicion. I think of that sunflower painting.
Speaking of the second contradiction, I can't help but start to doubt men. Sex is so important? This is a deep hurt for both Qinghui and the other woman. Gu Zai had sex with another woman when he was not ready for the next relationship. Did he still expect to make love through sex? Now that you have approved your new girlfriend in front of your friends, why are you still having sex with your ex-girlfriend? Can't control your lower body? I can believe in the separation of sex and love, but can I not put my loved one in such an embarrassing position? It's obvious when you're having sex, but sex within the relationship is different. This is where I feel so disgusted.
The way the other woman appeared was so impressive that I will never forget it. I don't even want to mention her name. Mr. Zhao is right, she was the victim, but later she became the perpetrator. If I were in her position, I would be upset and angry. But I must have cut it off at the beginning, when I saw Qinghui's photo in Gu's wallet. I have never advocated love that is as low as dust. After all, I am not her. She is too paranoid. I can't help but think of Ai Xiaotu's "Paranoia". The paranoia of two people is fate, and the paranoia of one person is a disaster. In this form, it is already harmful to people and has caused great harm to Qinghui's spirit. But you see, this is actually very common. When two women compete for a man, they will always use their trivial love affairs to attack each other and show their intimacy and sovereignty. It's just that the other woman was smarter. She chose to let Qinghui listen to other people's stories and give him trust. Which is more credible, the words of enemies or irrelevant people? Even if it is true, we will never believe the words of enemies.
When my husband's concealment was mixed with the truth from a third party, my spirit was about to collapse, whether it was Qinghui or me.
Why do people always show modesty after making mistakes? I describe it as politeness. Children actually don't like apologizing very much. The mistake has already been made. Doesn't the harm disappear after apologizing? Not to mention how feeble Gu's apology was. Wilde said, "Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future." I think neither the past nor the future is relevant to the person involved. Why bother waiting in front of you?
After reading this novel, I understood what it means to reunite a broken mirror. Of course, a broken mirror can never be reunited again. The novels about broken mirrors and reunions that I have encountered before are simply pretentious and misunderstood, and the real rift cannot be repaired.
I have to complain about Gu's character. He is perfect in appearance, good in work and appearance. Internally corrupt, greed, anger and ignorance take over. I don't know where he got the courage to fight against Qinghui. Maybe money lent him the courage. Being divorced does not mean that you have no right to pursue, but is this pursuit? This is to rush the duck to the shelf and boil the water to kill the pig. Pressing forward step by step can be a good thing in other novels about the boss, but it only smells bad when it comes to him. He treated Mr. Zhao out of anger and revenge. This is an extremely ungentlemanly approach. Fortunately, I also saw clearly that he was no gentleman. The same is true for the "handling" of another woman. I certainly don't doubt that Gu has the ability and right to suppress her in business, just as I can't interfere with how the money in other people's pockets is distributed. Being irrational because you cannot get what you want is called anger. There is no clear definition of the inside and outside of the relationship, no distinction between right and wrong in what is done, and love is just an excuse to satisfy selfish desires. "Practice precepts diligently, calm down, and have wisdom, and eliminate greed, anger, and ignorance" as a gift to Mr. Gu.
After reading this novel, I can only describe it in one word: like a lump in my throat. I can't even say I have anger, I just feel uncomfortable. It's like forcing a mouthful of shit. It doesn't seem to have any effect on the body if you swallow it, but you can't swallow it. If you spit it out, it still tastes fragrant, and you feel very uncomfortable no matter what. The final ending also left me disappointed, but it made sense. How many past events have been lost in time, not to mention that there is still a baby. Of course, I don't think Qinghui has lost the right to pursue love again because of the baby's existence. She can try new relationships. But that's just saying, her character may not be the one to bravely take that step, not to mention the interference of her former lover and the ties of her children. I really don't like the presence of children at this time. Things tend to get complicated when two people involve a third person. Children are not only accidents but also connections. When it comes to this, we have to talk about the little Jasmine, also known as "The Beloved of This Life". According to my guess, this is probably the tone of the male protagonist. After all, there is a high probability that the child retains his lover for him, and he often has this plan during the marriage, using the child to tie his lover. Saying this makes me feel stupid. For Qinghui, this is also a good excuse to live a confused life. The only thing that can convince her is that without this child, I can't imagine how he would be. It makes people sick to the point of vomiting blood. I really don't want the child to be involved at this time, and I also don't want the child to become the only constraint and only connection between the couple one day. If I want to consider my children, I hope they will be born in a harmonious and warm atmosphere.
I felt a little better after writing all this out. Otherwise, I would have been unable to sleep in the middle of the night after reading it, and would have had no energy to do anything. I would have been so shocked. Time can erase many traces. I recommend "Repaying Debt" written by Ruo Liang Sanri, which really made me see the power of time. And the strongest and weakest connections in the world - emotions. But this novel really does not satisfy my understanding of time. I will never forgive a man like Gu in my life. This kind of principled mistake can only be made zero or countless times. No matter what angle you are in, I would rather kill a man who puts you in an embarrassing position than let him go. The way to avoid being hurt is to refuse to accept it.
In addition, Er Fei's writing style is really good, and the subject matter is also very novel, realistic and profound. As a story told to everyone, I think it is very successful. Not only did I laugh and feel sad, but what's more rare is that I also thought about it. Although there is a sentence in the ending that I don't like very much, such a good scenery theory hahaha, I would rather kick him out of the car.
My first short work document is given to Qinghui! If I don't take pictures, I will feel uncomfortable for several days tomorrow.
I reviewed it again, but unfortunately some of it has been locked. I personally think this is the author's pinnacle work, both in terms of character creation and depth of writing. I hope to write another one like this.
I see a lot of people saying that the male protagonist is a scumbag, and I really can't understand it. The male protagonist broke up with the female protagonist at that time, and he also thought that the female protagonist and her had been together since childhood, so he talked to the second female protagonist. This is very reasonable. He Yichen is rare, and his standards are too high. Of course, the male protagonist in this article cannot compare, but he is still affectionate towards the female protagonist.
There is not even a timeline in which the male protagonist first misunderstood that the female protagonist is with his sweetheart or first met the second female protagonist. The mistress slept with the male protagonist on the same bed as the male protagonist and the second female protagonist. It's so evil. It's all like this. The ending also vaguely mentions the possible second love. Fetus, the heroine should be an advanced maternal age at this time. Don't say any realistic articles. If you can't accept it, don't read it. I've read a lot of similar articles like [Kiss], including a lot of scumbag men and bitches. It's so disgusting. This is the first time. You see, the author loves the second male lead so much that he loves it blatantly. In the whole story, the male protagonist doesn't even have an even rival in love. He doesn't want to let the male protagonist have a free period, so he arranges for Zu Yu to fall in love with the female protagonist, so that the long-distance love relationship with the female protagonist completely becomes a waste. It's a joke, even the crematorium was not willing to be arranged, so the heroine got pregnant immediately after the divorce [Kiss] In the end, the hero's mother had the nerve to blame the heroine for hanging the hero [Kiss] and said that the hero was deeply affectionate when his head was pressed, but I think the heroine was the one who tolerated it when her head was pressed. For the rest of her life, when the heroine goes to bed with the hero, she will think of Zu Yu, and when she gets pregnant, she will also think of Zu Yu's text message that cannot be verified or falsified [kiss] I said it is for reality, don't be too funny, which girl in reality can be so tolerant [kiss]
I really like this article. . Already revisited for the 4th time
I have reviewed it three times, and I feel moved and lost.
Everyone does not need to wash, and the author does not wash. This is reality. Of course, the setting of the male protagonist truly loving the female protagonist is slightly idealized. But it's not some forced affection. Okay, if you think the male protagonist is disgusting, it only means that your view of love is more ideal. I believe that a man can refuse when faced with a beautiful woman who is trying her best to please him, and after they broke up and thought that their ex-girlfriend was with another man, the man's sex is to a large extent controlling them. People all over the world know this. The heroine is not forced to take over. She just hasn't found anyone better and more satisfied and excited. This is also in line with the state of most girls. It is not only by sleeping with another man that this statement can be equalized. The man is too Dirty, sleeping too much will only increase the probability of getting cauliflower. If possible, I hope the heroine is single and safe. If she really loves, then happiness will be good. Don't pursue absolute fairness. Love is not something that can be measured by your sincerity and mine. The important thing is that at any time, you should put your own happiness and your own happiness first, love yourself well, take care of yourself, and comply with your own feelings, you can choose anyone. It doesn't matter, don't treat love as a scary right or wrong issue. Put loving yourself first, and then find someone you love to talk about love with.
After watching it once, I felt like I had a diaphragm, so much so that I still have shadows about it. The story of Foot Bath and Gu Chuxu and the details of their relationship. Some are exaggerated but some are real. The real situation is that he is almost seamless. He is not a good man by any means. He is indeed more harmonious with the female protagonist. I don't think he dares to deny this. After all, the female protagonist can let go and it's fun to do it. It's also true that Jinan eats hot pot. Does this still mean that the heroine is only qualified to find men in the garbage dump? I thought about it for a long time and really can't understand it.
I just felt alert after watching it. I have a good temper externally, but in front of my husband and in our own home, I am willful and overbearing. He must listen to me. When we quarrel, he must first admit his mistakes and bow his head. I believe many girls treat their significant other this way. Now it suddenly dawns on me that it's okay to be willful once in a while, but you have to be relaxed and relaxed, and you have to learn to give the other person a step down, don't wait until this point, there is no regret medicine.
I like it, but it's just that Lao Gu's relationship with that jade in the end made me a little disgusted. I couldn't control myself as soon as we got together? Alas, although this is the norm for most real-life men and women, it is still disgusting after they break up and get back together.
I didn't want to read the article after reading the comments, but I'm glad I did.
As a veteran, you will think this is a sweet story. The male protagonist really loves the female protagonist, and he is willing to tolerate her even if she is very arrogant. The heroine's personality is not palatable to readers. In the first 15 chapters, I saw that the heroine was very jealous and arrogant and almost gave up the article.
But compared with the male protagonist's previous ex, as mentioned in the article, he especially likes to use simple things to crush men's spirits. I have to love you with all my strength, love you, love you, let you see it, no matter what, let everyone see that I love you. In contrast, the heroine is only arrogant and willful towards the male protagonist. In fact, she does not play tricks on anyone. She has a straightforward personality. If she doesn't like the suitor, she just says she doesn't like it. The heroine is really cute.
I can understand that the female protagonist cannot accept the male protagonist's "past", because as a psychologist, she is open-minded and empathic to the patients during psychotherapy. What she feels in this situation is equivalent to the complainant's feelings. She was plotted by the second female protagonist, and the shock she received was almost as if the second female protagonist showed her their love video, and then harassed the female protagonist with heart-wrenching text messages at the right time. For such a proud woman, the only option is divorce.
I can understand what the author wants to express, and I feel that you really have the courage to write such a romance novel.
The desire and soul in romance novels are actually the expectations of readers, and they expect the male protagonist to be loyal to the female protagonist in body and soul. This novel deviates a little bit and fails to meet many people's expectations. It feels like the male protagonist is scumbag and unclean.
Where is the scumbag? He is always tolerant of the heroine, and he tolerates her willfulness in every way. He was a scumbag to the second girl, but he was single at the time, and the second girl also took the opportunity to have a one-night stand with him after drinking, right? It's just that the second female lead is involved in a scheming emotional entanglement, and the male protagonist is dating with the attitude of just dating.
Later, the male protagonist accidentally had a one-night stand with the female protagonist, and then the male protagonist broke up with the second female protagonist.
He just didn't tell the heroine about this relationship, so the second heroine was very destructive when she destroyed it.
The heroine didn't call him a scumbag, she just accumulated distrust of the hero. She exploded as soon as the second heroine appeared, and from then on she felt that the hero should be an emotional liar.
The timeline of the story jumps between the present and the past, so you need to pay attention when reading the article, but the whole story is smooth from beginning to end. Maybe it would be tiring to follow the article every day. Fortunately, I read the whole story.
I think it's great. Maybe I'm a veteran. The romances I've seen before are all fantasy novels with pink bubbles. I read them for fun. It's rare to see such a realistic love story. It's good.
The male protagonist is so irritating! No other novel can make me so angry (face covering). Although it is normal to date a girlfriend during a breakup, and the progress is very touching, and they live together not long after, the male protagonist hopes to use sex to forget the female protagonist. , Secretly used his identity as a patient to share with the heroine what happened in bed with her. The heroine realized afterwards that this was really unreasonable, even if the hero said it was Zu Yu's imagination. In the end, they actually got back together. I can only say that the heroine was sad for his misfortune and was angry with him for not fighting. I believe that even if they get back together, the heroine will be resentful. Zuyu will always be a thorn in her heart. In addition, the heroine's character is too easy to compromise, which is a bit unlikable. I remember when I was chasing this article every day, I was angry every day but couldn't help but chase it every day (covering my face). I just want to say that Dada's writing style is so amazing and he can write the characters in the novel so deeply.
I've read it three times and I don't know what to say when I see comments attacking the author... The author just wants to tell a story.
I don't care, it's just my favorite realistic post-marriage article!
It's really realistic. But when I see the second female lead, I still selectively skip it. It's too uncomfortable.
I've been reading this novel for a long time. It's so good! But it's a bit annoying to me! ! ! ! I'm still unhappy. It's so uncomfortable.
I really spent another half day reading this novel today. This novel really has a special place in my heart. I always feel that Qinghui and I are not 100%, but at least 90% similar. Her thinking, the things she encountered, her unyieldingness and compromise.
They say that when you are with a person, you don't have to care about his or her ex, as long as it's you for the rest of your life. If you have never met and fallen in love before, maybe you will feel more comfortable if you really don't care. Meeting the person you love for the rest of your life for the first time is truly an unparalleled and beautiful thing, but this beauty, this perfection has become flawed, and there is still a big crack. It is a fact, it has happened, it has existed, it cannot be erased, it is impossible not to care, and it is impossible not to feel distressed. As long as you love me even a little bit, the pain will never be there. Stop, because when a love that is completely exclusive to you, one day you find that it has been given to others, and it is so beautiful, everything becomes no longer perfect, it is not your only one, you are too possessive, you cannot accept that it may not be what it is before, and the pain makes you unable to breathe. Fortunately or unfortunately, time can mend the cracks, smooth the edges and corners, and turn it into a new look. Will you remember the beginning? Do the rifts still exist? Is it as painful and sad as before? The new will surely come, but can the past pass away?
When I was reading this article, I felt that there were too many similarities. I couldn't help it. They just had a relationship. Do we have to blame him for why he had to force himself to start a new relationship when he met a crazy cheating girl? Why can't you stay single for a while? Alas!
In short, I am glad that this is a HE story. Even after going full circle, the ending that everyone expected happened. The ending is happy and it only matters to them.
How many different kinds of sorrow are there in reality.
It's so boring, this heroine is so disappointing
No one can refuse Su Ran! ! ! Sprinkle flowers~
Not only water, but also poison and radiation [bad laugh][laughter and cry][laughter and cry][laughter and cry][dog head]
I feel that the story is pretty good, maybe because some things influenced the author, and then some of the content didn't come around. I read this book in Jinjiang. When I was writing it, there were a lot of people arguing in the comments, which may have affected the author. But after reading the whole story, I felt that the heroine might be a bit delicate. I always feel that the male protagonist does not fully express his love for the female protagonist, and many of the things mentioned by the female protagonist seem to be his own sexual desires. The male protagonist really loves the female protagonist, but there are too many misunderstandings, and then he does not make it clear. When I have time to read it as a reading comprehension, I may describe it in more detail.
I always thought that the male protagonist really loved the female protagonist, but this seemed to have led to him hurting another girl. The male protagonist once drove back all night to find his girlfriend because of a phone call (the details may be a little questionable), and he saw his girlfriend with someone else. The main reason was that the man deliberately made the male protagonist misunderstand that he was the female protagonist's current boyfriend, and this man replaced the male protagonist and the female protagonist to go to the place they had arranged to go together. The male protagonist is still a bit chauvinistic, that is, you don't need me in the world anymore, and there is another person who can take care of you. Then it ends like this, and then they break up and choose someone else. It's normal. When we met the heroine again, we got together again. I think true love will eventually make people impulsive (I can't describe it in a specific way). He loved the heroine, and then he went back and broke up with another girl. If put in reality, it would be really bad. But in the novel, his love for the heroine was emphasized. He just chose the one he liked, and did not choose to compromise with the so-called suitable or almost compromising. However, at least he did not want to be in the same boat. Maybe we can forgive him.
The above was written a long time ago. Now that I think about it, Zu Yu is indeed a bit miserable. The boyfriend she worked so hard to win suddenly broke up with her (but in fact, when they were together, she should have known that the hero had someone else in his heart). Then everything she did to the heroine was excusable, but a bit extreme. In the past, she always made things difficult for herself and then hurt another woman. Why should a woman embarrass a woman? After all, it is because of the man.
In the end, after reading the whole story, I felt that all the characters were hateful but not hateful.
Please don't comment on my personal feelings. Maybe you will have different thoughts next time you read it.
Written one year after reading the article.
Personally, I think this is the author's most profound novel!
The writing style is excellent, the writing is very delicate, the emotional logic is smooth and real, and the reality looks like a fairy tale.
I read a lot of comments before and thought they were so bad that I almost missed this article. After reading it and thinking about everyone's comments, I can understand why some people bu? Neng? Jie? Shou
I read a book called Dark Marriage, and thought about it, isn't this the story of Zuyu becoming a heroine?
How should I put it? After reading this article, I only have one thought: Dazai would like to commit suicide. Sure enough, he still doesn't study enough or does not do enough homework!
Communication is so important. From love to marriage, the male and female protagonists evaded and deceived themselves on some key issues, which caused the male and female protagonists to have a grudge against each other after the marriage. They both believed that the other party had had someone else during the breakup, but they both held back and allowed the conflict to become more and more serious. Until Zuyu appeared and broke the pretense of calm between the two. In fact, when they broke up, the male protagonist was After hearing what Fa Xiao said, you can go to the heroine to verify it. If the heroine asks the hero directly after seeing the condoms in the apartment, then the next thing may not happen. Or the hero can openly tell the heroine that he had a relationship after breaking up, and ask for forgiveness from the heroine. At the same time, he can also verify whether the heroine was with Fa Xiao in the first place. It would be better to resolve all the knots before getting married. This article is quite good. It has some warning significance for real life. Some girls in the comment area should not be too serious and bring their own emotions into the article. They can be dissatisfied with the characters and the storyline, but there is no need for personal attacks and curses.
I dare not read this kind of novel that is close to reality, because it is easy to be substituted, and the feelings will be deep. I can only say that the novel is a novel, derived from reality, and also deviated from reality.
In reality, as long as a man betrays a woman, there will always be a thorn in a woman's heart. It cannot be removed, it will only be hidden deeper. Suddenly one day it will come out and hurt the person. Unless you really don't love him anymore and you really see through the world of mortals, you can let go. That is also the end of separation.
When I saw the heroine preparing to start a new relationship, I thought that this should be it, but I didn't expect that except for two kisses, the spark disappeared. The more I looked back, the more I felt that the heroine was not actually forgiving or letting go, but a helpless choice in life. Then she hypnotized herself and turned from love to family affection for this man, because of little Jasmine.
In reality, many female friends like this are really deeply touched. This is my own feeling after reading it. I hope it will not affect the readers who follow.
Those who say this article is sweet must be because they have too little experience or are too young. When you can grow into an independent and self-loving woman, you will understand what a healthy and equal relationship between the sexes is.
The protagonist of this article is one of the counterexamples
I don't think this article is considered a scumbag article? ! Didn't the male protagonist have any sex after getting married? ! Do I have some misunderstanding about scumbag writing? !
After reading Fei Mu Fei Shi's novel "Qinghui", I didn't read the text carefully, but the title "Little Jasmine, the Beloved of My Life" attracted me very much. The full story has nothing to do with little Jasmine. After finally reading the extra chapter, it turns out that little Jasmine is Qinghui's daughter. I couldn't help but wonder, whose voice was this title spoken in? Originally, I thought it was the heroine who was called in the male protagonist's voice. Since it is a daughter, is it the father calling, the mother calling, or both. I have to read it as a bloody documentary novel. First of all, it has coincidences and accidents that are not often encountered in life, but it cannot be said that such plots will not appear in life. In addition, it is documentary, indeed documentary, and can even be said to be very realistic. The relationship between the characters is complex yet simple, it's just you and me, you and the other woman. The beginning of the novel is the established fact of marriage between the two. I like the long history of family affairs, which is another reason why I opened the novel. I have to say that I was actually very attracted to it at the beginning, not least because of the writing and the protagonist's IQ. The little things described are all everyday, and the humorous tone made me laugh inexplicably. I once couldn't understand that there was a "contrived" woman like Qinghui in my life, who would suddenly send her husband to buy boiled peanuts in a street late at night, who would lose her temper due to menstrual pain, who would be inexplicably unhappy, and who would be inexplicably bad-mouthed. For me, I can't stand it. I feel that the friendship with my husband will be "failed" sooner or later. I also feel that I will never become such a person. But I am neither others, how can I judge others. Maybe one day, I will meet such a person, and I will unconsciously vent my "little temper" to him. In short, life is unpredictable. With that said, I can understand Qinghui. Of course, I still don't agree with blindly acting. No one can tolerate your little temper forever. I am a person who likes to give myself dignity. So when I saw what Qinghui was doing, I would hold my breath, fearing that Gu would not be used to it the next second, but once Gu was used to it, I felt something was wrong. This comes from my shallow understanding of human nature. When things go wrong, there must be monsters. Qinghui's actions are more like tests. Since the suspicion was buried in her heart, she tried her hands little by little. Something is wrong when the man is unusually good-natured towards his wife. I really don't believe that there are such good men in the world. The perfect husband can only be the person you set for yourself. I often wonder what their contradiction is. Is it another woman? I think the other woman is no longer important. Of course, the other woman is also very hateful. Her fault is another matter. Frankness is indispensable in marriage. No one likes to feel left in the dark. I tend to live an honest life, but of course there are bound to be lies in the adult world. Ji Xianlin said, "It's rare to be confused." Living in confusion can indeed make embarrassment and frustration go away, but maybe because of professionalism, a bad debt is even more embarrassing. What's even scarier is that there is no way to change it. Gu's fault was that he was too self-willed. He was too sure that he could handle everything. He hid the past, but his methods were not clever, and even left a legacy. Qinghui is not stupid. As a woman, she is willing to live in confusion, but she can't let it go. This kind of feeling cannot be changed by a word from a reader or bystander. For example, if a person knows whether drinking water is warm or cold, the last thing he cannot control is his mind. I hate the concealment and whitewashing in marriage, and white lies cannot change the hurtful fact. This is one of Gu's biggest mistakes, and it is also the biggest problem in their marriage in my opinion. Low-level whitewashing is more eye-catching and arouses suspicion. I think of that sunflower painting. Speaking of the second contradiction, I can't help but start to doubt men. Sex is so important? This is a deep hurt for both Qinghui and the other woman. Gu Zai had sex with another woman when he was not ready for the next relationship. Did he still expect to make love through sex? Now that you have approved your new girlfriend in front of your friends, why are you still having sex with your ex-girlfriend? Can't control your lower body? I can believe in the separation of sex and love, but can I not put my loved one in such an embarrassing position? It's obvious when you're having sex, but sex within the relationship is different. This is where I feel so disgusted. The way the other woman appeared was so impressive that I will never forget it. I don't even want to mention her name. Mr. Zhao is right, she was the victim, but later she became the perpetrator. If I were in her position, I would be upset and angry. But I must have cut it off at the beginning, when I saw Qinghui's photo in Gu's wallet. I have never advocated love that is as low as dust. After all, I am not her. She is too paranoid. I can't help but think of Ai Xiaotu's "Paranoia". The paranoia of two people is fate, and the paranoia of one person is a disaster. In this form, it is already harmful to people and has caused great harm to Qinghui's spirit. But you see, this is actually very common. When two women compete for a man, they will always use their trivial love affairs to attack each other and show their intimacy and sovereignty. It's just that the other woman was smarter. She chose to let Qinghui listen to other people's stories and give him trust. Which is more credible, the words of enemies or irrelevant people? Even if it is true, we will never believe the words of enemies. When my husband's concealment was mixed with the truth from a third party, my spirit was about to collapse, whether it was Qinghui or me. Why do people always show modesty after making mistakes? I describe it as politeness. Children actually don't like apologizing very much. The mistake has already been made. Doesn't the harm disappear after apologizing? Not to mention how feeble Gu's apology was. Wilde said, "Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future." I think neither the past nor the future is relevant to the person involved. Why bother waiting in front of you? After reading this novel, I understood what it means to reunite a broken mirror. Of course, a broken mirror can never be reunited again. The novels about broken mirrors and reunions that I have encountered before are simply pretentious and misunderstood, and the real rift cannot be repaired. I have to complain about Gu's character. He is perfect in appearance, good in work and appearance. Internally corrupt, greed, anger and ignorance take over. I don't know where he got the courage to fight against Qinghui. Maybe money lent him the courage. Being divorced does not mean that you have no right to pursue, but is this pursuit? This is to rush the duck to the shelf and boil the water to kill the pig. Pressing forward step by step can be a good thing in other novels about the boss, but it only smells bad when it comes to him. He treated Mr. Zhao out of anger and revenge. This is an extremely ungentlemanly approach. Fortunately, I also saw clearly that he was no gentleman. The same is true for the "handling" of another woman. I certainly don't doubt that Gu has the ability and right to suppress her in business, just as I can't interfere with how the money in other people's pockets is distributed. Being irrational because you cannot get what you want is called anger. There is no clear definition of the inside and outside of the relationship, no distinction between right and wrong in what is done, and love is just an excuse to satisfy selfish desires. "Practice precepts diligently, calm down, and have wisdom, and eliminate greed, anger, and ignorance" as a gift to Mr. Gu. After reading this novel, I can only describe it in one word: like a lump in my throat. I can't even say I have anger, I just feel uncomfortable. It's like forcing a mouthful of shit. It doesn't seem to have any effect on the body if you swallow it, but you can't swallow it. If you spit it out, it still tastes fragrant, and you feel very uncomfortable no matter what. The final ending also left me disappointed, but it made sense. How many past events have been lost in time, not to mention that there is still a baby. Of course, I don't think Qinghui has lost the right to pursue love again because of the baby's existence. She can try new relationships. But that's just saying, her character may not be the one to bravely take that step, not to mention the interference of her former lover and the ties of her children. I really don't like the presence of children at this time. Things tend to get complicated when two people involve a third person. Children are not only accidents but also connections. When it comes to this, we have to talk about the little Jasmine, also known as "The Beloved of This Life". According to my guess, this is probably the tone of the male protagonist. After all, there is a high probability that the child retains his lover for him, and he often has this plan during the marriage, using the child to tie his lover. Saying this makes me feel stupid. For Qinghui, this is also a good excuse to live a confused life. The only thing that can convince her is that without this child, I can't imagine how he would be. It makes people sick to the point of vomiting blood. I really don't want the child to be involved at this time, and I also don't want the child to become the only constraint and only connection between the couple one day. If I want to consider my children, I hope they will be born in a harmonious and warm atmosphere. I felt a little better after writing all this out. Otherwise, I would have been unable to sleep in the middle of the night after reading it, and would have had no energy to do anything. I would have been so shocked. Time can erase many traces. I recommend "Repaying Debt" written by Ruo Liang Sanri, which really made me see the power of time. And the strongest and weakest connections in the world - emotions. But this novel really does not satisfy my understanding of time. I will never forgive a man like Gu in my life. This kind of principled mistake can only be made zero or countless times. No matter what angle you are in, I would rather kill a man who puts you in an embarrassing position than let him go. The way to avoid being hurt is to refuse to accept it. In addition, Er Fei's writing style is really good, and the subject matter is also very novel, realistic and profound. As a story told to everyone, I think it is very successful. Not only did I laugh and feel sad, but what's more rare is that I also thought about it. Although there is a sentence in the ending that I don't like very much, such a good scenery theory hahaha, I would rather kick him out of the car. My first short work document is given to Qinghui! If I don't take pictures, I will feel uncomfortable for several days tomorrow.
I reviewed it again, but unfortunately some of it has been locked. I personally think this is the author's pinnacle work, both in terms of character creation and depth of writing. I hope to write another one like this.
I see a lot of people saying that the male protagonist is a scumbag, and I really can't understand it. The male protagonist broke up with the female protagonist at that time, and he also thought that the female protagonist and her had been together since childhood, so he talked to the second female protagonist. This is very reasonable. He Yichen is rare, and his standards are too high. Of course, the male protagonist in this article cannot compare, but he is still affectionate towards the female protagonist.
There is not even a timeline in which the male protagonist first misunderstood that the female protagonist is with his sweetheart or first met the second female protagonist. The mistress slept with the male protagonist on the same bed as the male protagonist and the second female protagonist. It's so evil. It's all like this. The ending also vaguely mentions the possible second love. Fetus, the heroine should be an advanced maternal age at this time. Don't say any realistic articles. If you can't accept it, don't read it. I've read a lot of similar articles like [Kiss], including a lot of scumbag men and bitches. It's so disgusting. This is the first time. You see, the author loves the second male lead so much that he loves it blatantly. In the whole story, the male protagonist doesn't even have an even rival in love. He doesn't want to let the male protagonist have a free period, so he arranges for Zu Yu to fall in love with the female protagonist, so that the long-distance love relationship with the female protagonist completely becomes a waste. It's a joke, even the crematorium was not willing to be arranged, so the heroine got pregnant immediately after the divorce [Kiss] In the end, the hero's mother had the nerve to blame the heroine for hanging the hero [Kiss] and said that the hero was deeply affectionate when his head was pressed, but I think the heroine was the one who tolerated it when her head was pressed. For the rest of her life, when the heroine goes to bed with the hero, she will think of Zu Yu, and when she gets pregnant, she will also think of Zu Yu's text message that cannot be verified or falsified [kiss] I said it is for reality, don't be too funny, which girl in reality can be so tolerant [kiss]
I really like this article. . Already revisited for the 4th time
I have reviewed it three times, and I feel moved and lost.
Everyone does not need to wash, and the author does not wash. This is reality. Of course, the setting of the male protagonist truly loving the female protagonist is slightly idealized. But it's not some forced affection. Okay, if you think the male protagonist is disgusting, it only means that your view of love is more ideal. I believe that a man can refuse when faced with a beautiful woman who is trying her best to please him, and after they broke up and thought that their ex-girlfriend was with another man, the man's sex is to a large extent controlling them. People all over the world know this. The heroine is not forced to take over. She just hasn't found anyone better and more satisfied and excited. This is also in line with the state of most girls. It is not only by sleeping with another man that this statement can be equalized. The man is too Dirty, sleeping too much will only increase the probability of getting cauliflower. If possible, I hope the heroine is single and safe. If she really loves, then happiness will be good. Don't pursue absolute fairness. Love is not something that can be measured by your sincerity and mine. The important thing is that at any time, you should put your own happiness and your own happiness first, love yourself well, take care of yourself, and comply with your own feelings, you can choose anyone. It doesn't matter, don't treat love as a scary right or wrong issue. Put loving yourself first, and then find someone you love to talk about love with.
After watching it once, I felt like I had a diaphragm, so much so that I still have shadows about it. The story of Foot Bath and Gu Chuxu and the details of their relationship. Some are exaggerated but some are real. The real situation is that he is almost seamless. He is not a good man by any means. He is indeed more harmonious with the female protagonist. I don't think he dares to deny this. After all, the female protagonist can let go and it's fun to do it. It's also true that Jinan eats hot pot. Does this still mean that the heroine is only qualified to find men in the garbage dump? I thought about it for a long time and really can't understand it.
I just felt alert after watching it. I have a good temper externally, but in front of my husband and in our own home, I am willful and overbearing. He must listen to me. When we quarrel, he must first admit his mistakes and bow his head. I believe many girls treat their significant other this way. Now it suddenly dawns on me that it's okay to be willful once in a while, but you have to be relaxed and relaxed, and you have to learn to give the other person a step down, don't wait until this point, there is no regret medicine.
I like it, but it's just that Lao Gu's relationship with that jade in the end made me a little disgusted. I couldn't control myself as soon as we got together? Alas, although this is the norm for most real-life men and women, it is still disgusting after they break up and get back together.
I didn't want to read the article after reading the comments, but I'm glad I did. As a veteran, you will think this is a sweet story. The male protagonist really loves the female protagonist, and he is willing to tolerate her even if she is very arrogant. The heroine's personality is not palatable to readers. In the first 15 chapters, I saw that the heroine was very jealous and arrogant and almost gave up the article. But compared with the male protagonist's previous ex, as mentioned in the article, he especially likes to use simple things to crush men's spirits. I have to love you with all my strength, love you, love you, let you see it, no matter what, let everyone see that I love you. In contrast, the heroine is only arrogant and willful towards the male protagonist. In fact, she does not play tricks on anyone. She has a straightforward personality. If she doesn't like the suitor, she just says she doesn't like it. The heroine is really cute. I can understand that the female protagonist cannot accept the male protagonist's "past", because as a psychologist, she is open-minded and empathic to the patients during psychotherapy. What she feels in this situation is equivalent to the complainant's feelings. She was plotted by the second female protagonist, and the shock she received was almost as if the second female protagonist showed her their love video, and then harassed the female protagonist with heart-wrenching text messages at the right time. For such a proud woman, the only option is divorce. I can understand what the author wants to express, and I feel that you really have the courage to write such a romance novel. The desire and soul in romance novels are actually the expectations of readers, and they expect the male protagonist to be loyal to the female protagonist in body and soul. This novel deviates a little bit and fails to meet many people's expectations. It feels like the male protagonist is scumbag and unclean. Where is the scumbag? He is always tolerant of the heroine, and he tolerates her willfulness in every way. He was a scumbag to the second girl, but he was single at the time, and the second girl also took the opportunity to have a one-night stand with him after drinking, right? It's just that the second female lead is involved in a scheming emotional entanglement, and the male protagonist is dating with the attitude of just dating. Later, the male protagonist accidentally had a one-night stand with the female protagonist, and then the male protagonist broke up with the second female protagonist. He just didn't tell the heroine about this relationship, so the second heroine was very destructive when she destroyed it. The heroine didn't call him a scumbag, she just accumulated distrust of the hero. She exploded as soon as the second heroine appeared, and from then on she felt that the hero should be an emotional liar. The timeline of the story jumps between the present and the past, so you need to pay attention when reading the article, but the whole story is smooth from beginning to end. Maybe it would be tiring to follow the article every day. Fortunately, I read the whole story. I think it's great. Maybe I'm a veteran. The romances I've seen before are all fantasy novels with pink bubbles. I read them for fun. It's rare to see such a realistic love story. It's good.
The male protagonist is so irritating! No other novel can make me so angry (face covering). Although it is normal to date a girlfriend during a breakup, and the progress is very touching, and they live together not long after, the male protagonist hopes to use sex to forget the female protagonist. , Secretly used his identity as a patient to share with the heroine what happened in bed with her. The heroine realized afterwards that this was really unreasonable, even if the hero said it was Zu Yu's imagination. In the end, they actually got back together. I can only say that the heroine was sad for his misfortune and was angry with him for not fighting. I believe that even if they get back together, the heroine will be resentful. Zuyu will always be a thorn in her heart. In addition, the heroine's character is too easy to compromise, which is a bit unlikable. I remember when I was chasing this article every day, I was angry every day but couldn't help but chase it every day (covering my face). I just want to say that Dada's writing style is so amazing and he can write the characters in the novel so deeply.
I've read it three times and I don't know what to say when I see comments attacking the author... The author just wants to tell a story.
I don't care, it's just my favorite realistic post-marriage article!
It's really realistic. But when I see the second female lead, I still selectively skip it. It's too uncomfortable.
I've been reading this novel for a long time. It's so good! But it's a bit annoying to me! ! ! ! I'm still unhappy. It's so uncomfortable.
I really spent another half day reading this novel today. This novel really has a special place in my heart. I always feel that Qinghui and I are not 100%, but at least 90% similar. Her thinking, the things she encountered, her unyieldingness and compromise. They say that when you are with a person, you don't have to care about his or her ex, as long as it's you for the rest of your life. If you have never met and fallen in love before, maybe you will feel more comfortable if you really don't care. Meeting the person you love for the rest of your life for the first time is truly an unparalleled and beautiful thing, but this beauty, this perfection has become flawed, and there is still a big crack. It is a fact, it has happened, it has existed, it cannot be erased, it is impossible not to care, and it is impossible not to feel distressed. As long as you love me even a little bit, the pain will never be there. Stop, because when a love that is completely exclusive to you, one day you find that it has been given to others, and it is so beautiful, everything becomes no longer perfect, it is not your only one, you are too possessive, you cannot accept that it may not be what it is before, and the pain makes you unable to breathe. Fortunately or unfortunately, time can mend the cracks, smooth the edges and corners, and turn it into a new look. Will you remember the beginning? Do the rifts still exist? Is it as painful and sad as before? The new will surely come, but can the past pass away? When I was reading this article, I felt that there were too many similarities. I couldn't help it. They just had a relationship. Do we have to blame him for why he had to force himself to start a new relationship when he met a crazy cheating girl? Why can't you stay single for a while? Alas! In short, I am glad that this is a HE story. Even after going full circle, the ending that everyone expected happened. The ending is happy and it only matters to them. How many different kinds of sorrow are there in reality.
It's so boring, this heroine is so disappointing
No one can refuse Su Ran! ! ! Sprinkle flowers~
Not only water, but also poison and radiation [bad laugh][laughter and cry][laughter and cry][laughter and cry][dog head]
I feel that the story is pretty good, maybe because some things influenced the author, and then some of the content didn't come around. I read this book in Jinjiang. When I was writing it, there were a lot of people arguing in the comments, which may have affected the author. But after reading the whole story, I felt that the heroine might be a bit delicate. I always feel that the male protagonist does not fully express his love for the female protagonist, and many of the things mentioned by the female protagonist seem to be his own sexual desires. The male protagonist really loves the female protagonist, but there are too many misunderstandings, and then he does not make it clear. When I have time to read it as a reading comprehension, I may describe it in more detail. I always thought that the male protagonist really loved the female protagonist, but this seemed to have led to him hurting another girl. The male protagonist once drove back all night to find his girlfriend because of a phone call (the details may be a little questionable), and he saw his girlfriend with someone else. The main reason was that the man deliberately made the male protagonist misunderstand that he was the female protagonist's current boyfriend, and this man replaced the male protagonist and the female protagonist to go to the place they had arranged to go together. The male protagonist is still a bit chauvinistic, that is, you don't need me in the world anymore, and there is another person who can take care of you. Then it ends like this, and then they break up and choose someone else. It's normal. When we met the heroine again, we got together again. I think true love will eventually make people impulsive (I can't describe it in a specific way). He loved the heroine, and then he went back and broke up with another girl. If put in reality, it would be really bad. But in the novel, his love for the heroine was emphasized. He just chose the one he liked, and did not choose to compromise with the so-called suitable or almost compromising. However, at least he did not want to be in the same boat. Maybe we can forgive him. The above was written a long time ago. Now that I think about it, Zu Yu is indeed a bit miserable. The boyfriend she worked so hard to win suddenly broke up with her (but in fact, when they were together, she should have known that the hero had someone else in his heart). Then everything she did to the heroine was excusable, but a bit extreme. In the past, she always made things difficult for herself and then hurt another woman. Why should a woman embarrass a woman? After all, it is because of the man. In the end, after reading the whole story, I felt that all the characters were hateful but not hateful. Please don't comment on my personal feelings. Maybe you will have different thoughts next time you read it. Written one year after reading the article.
Personally, I think this is the author's most profound novel!
The writing style is excellent, the writing is very delicate, the emotional logic is smooth and real, and the reality looks like a fairy tale.
I read a lot of comments before and thought they were so bad that I almost missed this article. After reading it and thinking about everyone's comments, I can understand why some people bu? Neng? Jie? Shou
I read a book called Dark Marriage, and thought about it, isn't this the story of Zuyu becoming a heroine?
How should I put it? After reading this article, I only have one thought: Dazai would like to commit suicide. Sure enough, he still doesn't study enough or does not do enough homework!
Communication is so important. From love to marriage, the male and female protagonists evaded and deceived themselves on some key issues, which caused the male and female protagonists to have a grudge against each other after the marriage. They both believed that the other party had had someone else during the breakup, but they both held back and allowed the conflict to become more and more serious. Until Zuyu appeared and broke the pretense of calm between the two. In fact, when they broke up, the male protagonist was After hearing what Fa Xiao said, you can go to the heroine to verify it. If the heroine asks the hero directly after seeing the condoms in the apartment, then the next thing may not happen. Or the hero can openly tell the heroine that he had a relationship after breaking up, and ask for forgiveness from the heroine. At the same time, he can also verify whether the heroine was with Fa Xiao in the first place. It would be better to resolve all the knots before getting married. This article is quite good. It has some warning significance for real life. Some girls in the comment area should not be too serious and bring their own emotions into the article. They can be dissatisfied with the characters and the storyline, but there is no need for personal attacks and curses.
I dare not read this kind of novel that is close to reality, because it is easy to be substituted, and the feelings will be deep. I can only say that the novel is a novel, derived from reality, and also deviated from reality. In reality, as long as a man betrays a woman, there will always be a thorn in a woman's heart. It cannot be removed, it will only be hidden deeper. Suddenly one day it will come out and hurt the person. Unless you really don't love him anymore and you really see through the world of mortals, you can let go. That is also the end of separation. When I saw the heroine preparing to start a new relationship, I thought that this should be it, but I didn't expect that except for two kisses, the spark disappeared. The more I looked back, the more I felt that the heroine was not actually forgiving or letting go, but a helpless choice in life. Then she hypnotized herself and turned from love to family affection for this man, because of little Jasmine. In reality, many female friends like this are really deeply touched. This is my own feeling after reading it. I hope it will not affect the readers who follow.
Those who say this article is sweet must be because they have too little experience or are too young. When you can grow into an independent and self-loving woman, you will understand what a healthy and equal relationship between the sexes is. The protagonist of this article is one of the counterexamples
I don't think this article is considered a scumbag article? ! Didn't the male protagonist have any sex after getting married? ! Do I have some misunderstanding about scumbag writing? !