In today's society, romance or communication between people often causes disagreements due to personality reasons after they first meet. With the popularization of psychological knowledge, the family of origin that formed our respective personalities seems to have become the culprit of everything, shrouding us throughout our lives, and some even suffer from depression. This article starts with the relationship between a depressed female teacher and a high school student, and discusses its causes, processes, and results. Also try to restore the scene of psychological counseling to popularize science.