Put aside these people and things, marriage is like the items displayed in the window. If you want it, go for it. If you want it, you can't afford it. That is a human problem, not what marriage brings to you. Just like the LV bag in the window, do you want it? If you want it, you can buy it if you can afford it. What if you want it but can't afford it? Can you still blame the bag for being too expensive? What can you do? Work hard so that your money can afford it, and your status doesn't feel inconvenient to get it, that's it.
If you don't want it, then don't want it. Why force yourself to get something you don't want. There is no LV, Burberry or Givenchy. This is just one thing. There is nothing that cannot be replaced. Marriage can also be replaced. This is not air, and it won't survive even if it is missing for a second; it is not water, and you will die if you don't have it. If you think anything in your life is more important than marriage, then grasp it. Don't abandon the treasure you love for something you don't like.
Marriage can be anything, it can be a luxury product, it can also be a fruit, a daily necessities. Just like coriander, like durian, if you love it very much, then go ahead and love it, no one will stop you; if you don't love it, don't love it, so why eat something you don't like just because "they" all eat it.