Love is a habit, just like you are used to writing with your right hand. If one day your right hand is broken and you have to learn to write with your left hand, it will be such a difficult process. Moreover, you may never be able to write better than your right hand in your life.
Zhuangzi said: It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes than to help each other.
I've been waiting.
Wait for someone to tell me: Zhuangzi is wrong.