Growing up is a long process, and this process will not be shortened just because you lose a friend, fall in love, or understand your parents' painstaking efforts.
Growth cannot be summed up in one go. The laziness, stubbornness, stubbornness, avoidance, and cowardice in your flesh and blood will not suddenly disappear just because something happens. In this process, you must walk in ragged clothes, stagger forward, endure the wind and rain again and again, and finally break out of the cocoon and turn into a butterfly, leaving a mess on the ground.