Remember?
The feeling of your first love? I asked many people, and some people told me directly that it was sweet. This is definitely the first reaction most people would give, sweet. Some people also told me that it was bitter.
However, in my memory, I can no longer distinguish the taste of my first love. I only know that I lost miserably that time. In love, the serious party often loses obviously.
Maybe I want to be serious myself, but you are not as serious as you think, it's just for fun.