Ye Wenzhi never understood what her father meant by "Learning to push away the things you like means growing up." Since it was something she liked, why should she push it away? It should be held tighter, right?
Later, she finally understood the meaning of that sentence. Some decisions are forced, and some growth is forced. We will all gain or lose something in the face of reality. That process is growth.
When Cen Yu held her hand tightly and said to her, "We have no other choice but to grow old together," Ye Wenzhi panicked and didn't know what to do. She remembered that he once said that possession is the beginning of loss. Does this mean that her end is to lose him in the end...