Everyone inevitably has various expectations for their life, such as a successful career, good health, a warm family, a satisfactory partner, and smart children... In short, they will be the envy of the world!
So should I have the characteristics that match these expectations? A bright mind? A sophisticated human being? A eloquent mouth? Or a good background? A good look? ... In short, you must have comparable qualifications and levels!
Perhaps this is the pursuit of life, fantasy and vanity! No matter what, people call this kind of life - "happiness".