"Have you ever seen Cold Mountain?" She asked.
"No!" He said
"There is a scene in the film where the male protagonist Inman asked a congenitally blind man, 'What are you willing to do in exchange for ten minutes of light?' The old man said, 'I will not give anything, because that will make me resentful. Ten minutes of light means that I will lose it immediately after I have just gained it.' There was a time when I regarded the old man's words as a guide. Now, as my motto, I have lived to this day by adhering to the creed of "don't pay and don't be disappointed", which has influenced many important choices in my life. But today I suddenly realized that other people's lives may not be suitable for me, not to mention that there is almost no possibility of that hypothesis. Everyone's desire for light is also different, and I It is even more impossible to accurately know whether my light is only ten minutes. In fact, Inman also refuted the old man's view with practical actions. He deserted because he was afraid that the war would make her lose the chance to see her sweetheart again. In the end, he exchanged his life for a brief reunion with his lover, and exchanged everything for ten minutes of light. I didn't leave this world with regrets, but the old man probably left with regrets. Disappointment is entirely caused by my high expectations. If my expectations are zero, then I will only get surprises. I don't want to be a blind man who seems to be wise. I want to be a stupid Inman and die without regrets."