No matter how romantic love is, as long as it is mixed with life, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, lunch, dinner, and all the minutiae, it will be enough to kill the original enthusiasm and romance, and the negativity towards life will also empty out all the hope for love. Lao Wang is a poet with ideas, and I am a young man with single ideas. I thought this was a match made in heaven, but within two years, I became disheartened by everything.