The protagonist, Alian, is a woman with excellent temperament, but she comes from a humble background, does not read much, and lives in the civilian class. Treating marriage problems with ease, thinking that they are "well-matched" and living their small lives peacefully and comfortably. After getting married, the little family's life was ordinary and uneventful. Later, due to the era of reform and opening up, the economy and culture were unprecedentedly active, and the inner yearning for a better life was gradually activated. In addition, the charming image and aura exuded by one's otherworldly temperament easily attracted bees and butterflies. As her ideology, living environment and habits gradually distanced herself from her husband, she eventually broke up. The torture of this article is: Marriage is nothing, but it has changed due to the changes of the times. The development and progress of the times have many unbearable costs.