Qian Zhongshu said that marriage is a besieged city. People outside the city want to get in, and people in the city want to get out. When it comes to marriages between small towns and backward rural areas, the woman's family is desperately trying to bring the man's family out of their backward thinking, while the man's family is like a closed country in the late Qing Dynasty, closing their hearts and minds, settling for a backward life, unwilling to come out of the crumbling city walls. The friction and collision of two different values and lifestyles stirred up a downward whirlpool. One party tried hard to climb up, but the other held his feet and pulled them down...