My parents never planned on me enrolling in Tsinghua University or Peking University. Their biggest expectation for me was to go to a pretty good university, find a pretty good job, and get married. I don't understand their unfavorable behavior, but there are various signs that they know me better than I know myself. So this kind of incomprehension gradually fades away, and life is not bad, in fact, it is not bad.
It is currently progressing steadily on a "not bad" road.
My mother has always said that I am lucky enough to be stupid.
I think so too.