When we encounter an interesting article, we always rush to read it when we have time; when we encounter something we like, we always put it in the shopping cart first, and then buy it when we want to have money; when we are fascinated by the city, we always check the guide first, and plan to go there when we have a vacation; when we like someone, we always hold back and tell ourselves to wait until the time is right. We saw all the beautiful scenery, tasted all the food, read all the books in our planning and imagination, and fell in love with our bones. In reality, we always say "forget it" and stay put, sitting in a well and looking at the sky.