Being young is a process of learning and trial and error. There are always moments when we don't know why we are a jerk. In our wanton and unrestrained youth, either we act as the assholes in other people's lives, or others act as the assholes in our lives. Have there ever been those moments when you suddenly raised your head while you were busy, remembered an old incident, and whispered something to the air that you would never have the chance to say again: "I'm sorry!".
I have a story and you have wine, let's make a pot of tea and see how a gangster who never believes in love takes this required course in life.