The plot in this article is partly taken from the author's own life. There will be a character inside that represents the author.
Taking Chen Lian as the protagonist, he observes the clutches around him and the various emotional deficiencies caused by various differences in personal growth.
It's not abuse for the sake of abuse.
But I hope it can make people understand better that feelings are never a perfect fit immediately. Rather, it is a painful process of smoothing out the edges of the character, or it may end in tragedy.