Thank you for the good stories that accompanied me through my youth.
Some are super serious, some are innocent and silly [forgive me for being a wild and unrestrained lover all my life], some are sweet pets, and some have no desires or demands [...] Some may not be in line with your three views. It doesn't matter logic. I just hope that the writing is not too naive, the three views are not too unrighteous, the protagonist is not disgusting, and the viewing is not heart-wrenching... Maybe.
So most of the recommended ones don't abuse the main characters... That's all I can say.
Usually bg, if there is bl, gl will be marked.
And my language skills are very poor qaq, most of the novels recommended are really worth reading.