When at home, she is the third lady who cannot be offended. The servants fear her, the brothers and sisters respect her, and the elders stay away from her.
After getting married, she was the eldest lady who could not be offended. The servants are still afraid of her, her brother-in-law and sister-in-law ignore her, her brothers and sisters are jealous of her, her husband doesn't come back often, and her elders... Don't.
After she became a mother-in-law, her daughters often came back to visit her. The daughters-in-law were vying to have a son, but she still liked to play leaf cards with Biyan, and she only won her.