There are not so many cases of love at first sight in the world, but we just sing about it so much that we think all couples are like this.
Exit those literary sublimations and return to life, and you will realize that this is not the case. Most of the emotions are still feelings that last for a long time (don't get me wrong, what I said about feelings for a long time is its original meaning, that is, feelings will be born after getting along for a long time.)
In comparison, the former is passionate and sensational, making literati lament and praise it for thousands of years, while the latter is plain, like a trickle, and it will only take two people in their seventies to be moved by the people of the time.
Literary works such as novels and movies often show the former, because the plot is ups and downs and fascinating, but it often ends abruptly at the junction.
For example, Western princes and princesses often end with just one sentence: "The prince and princess lived happily ever after."
Ancient Chinese poems usually only mention the title, "Looking back suddenly, that person is in the dim light."
The simple ending allows us to hold our chests in our hands and imagine endlessly, forgetting that life is actually just daily necessities, and we need to be patient and tolerant of each other every minute.
If you can't meet the standard of love at first sight, there is chicken soup to comfort you, "No one should die alone, the right person will always come, sooner or later."
Tsk, this kind of words is like the happy life of a princess and a prince, only suitable for imagination.
Counting only the imperial capital, there are millions of people who would be so scornful. Ling Cangshu, who returned to school after working hard for many years, and Lu Maoxing, who lives in a high-end office building halfway across the imperial capital, are just the most insignificant among them.