There are two aspects, soft and hard, physical and attitudinal.
When Lu Shenming first liked Zhanxuan, he was very tough on both sides, which resulted in a tense relationship between the two.
Later, Lu Shenming learned to soften his attitude, but found that Zhan Xuan also softened...
Lu Shenming: What a fucking life!
Note: 1. Lu Shenming
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