Huang You was born with nobility and died with pride. If he had any regrets in his life, it was that he did not find a lover and woke up again as a three-year-old child in a strange dynasty. In this era where men were superior to women, he wrote an unparalleled legend as a woman.
Note that the heroine is an extremely calm person, so even if she falls in love with someone, she will not risk her life or death for love.
The man dotes on the woman, double cleansing, 1v1, basically no abuse.