Tong Yao has lived as a female man for 25 years, and she is used to saying: I can do it. Finally one day, she met someone who would rub her head and say to her with a doting look on her face: "You are so heartbreaking." When she got angry with him while carrying a huge shopping bag: "You don't need to help me carry it, I can do it myself." He said Pick her up, um, princess hug [smile]: "Well, you can, I don't want to help you carry it. But when you are tired, you can hand over the shopping bag and yourself to me, and I will be responsible for taking you and it back well."