Maybe everyone has thought that they would meet someone, fall in love at first sight, and hold hands for a lifetime.
The same was true for Yu Lu. She once thought that if God gave her a good boy, then she would be his virtuous and gentle wife. If he meets a bad boy, if he loves him hard, then she will support him.
And Ye Shen happened to be different from what she had thought of. He never blamed her or forced her. Later she realized that as long as Ye Shen was around, she would alternate between being a good girl and a pregnant girl, while Lin Shen would always play the role of supporting her.