The breakup of marriage has traumatized us physically and mentally. Maybe we are still immersed in the abyss of pain, maybe we are still in the space of hating "him"... But please look at our child's childish face and those uneasy eyes... We cannot punish the child for "his" mistakes, because childishness is innocent. As mothers, we should find better ways to love and educate children, and minimize the harm to children.