When something is lost, it is lost. If you wait, will a miracle happen, will your life become more complete, and will it make you feel more valuable?
Maybe our lives are too smooth sailing, so we will all encounter such a disaster and our own destiny.
Perhaps sooner than we know, we are in deep trouble and can't extricate ourselves. It's not that we don't want to, it's that we can't.
If we had never met, maybe we would not be hurt, maybe we would live a simpler and more innocent life, maybe we would not feel the touch and sadness that love brings to us...