Only when we are truly free do we realize that all independence comes at a price. We no longer need to sneak in our mother's high heels; we no longer need to ask our parents many times to buy something; no one even cares if we come home late. But this also means that we have to start walking a lot in high heels, and even if our feet are squeezed out of the blisters, we still have to endure the pain to finish the day; this also means that we can indeed easily buy what we want to buy, but on the contrary, we are even more reluctant to part with every penny of our hard-earned money.
With a meager salary and almost nothing left after renting the house, your family is urging you to get married, and blind dates have become an activity every weekend. Some people finally got married, only to find that marriage was not the love we imagined. TV dramas are all lies. In life, there are not so many sweet words. In the end, you are exhausted after being tortured by firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. The elderly and children are all small things in life, but they are big things in marriage.
In those years after graduation, there were true and false, confusion, laughter and tears, but in the end we still went our separate ways, and we finally became just "me". As day and night change, it turns out that everything will change. We will become better versions of ourselves, and we will also lose the best of us. May we all become the original us.