The missing moon hangs on the sparse tung trees, which makes people feel quiet at first. Sometimes I see lonely people coming and going alone, misty and lonely shadows.
Startled but looked back, no one can spare the regret. Picking out all the cold branches and refusing to live on them, the lonely sandbank is cold.
——Su Shi, Northern Song Dynasty, "Businessman: Residence in Huangzhou Dinghui Yuan"
He always thought that he had changed her, and he was very proud of it, but later he discovered that she had been changing for him, quietly. He always thought that he was the one watching the show, but it turned out that he had already been deeply involved in it, and she had been awake all the time, soberly seeing that she loved him, soberly seeing that he didn't love her. The most frightening thing in the world is not death, but watching yourself die. The feeling of helplessness and helplessness is not pleasant, and she has been enduring it.