Buddha said: Suffering is not suffering, happiness is not happiness, it is just a temporary obsession. If you cling to one thought, you will be trapped in that thought; if you let go of one thought, you will be free in your heart. But some people abandon everything that should belong to them for the sake of a trace of obsession in their hearts, and never return on the road of life. They stay far away from the prajna in their hearts and fall into a place of misery!