Others crossed over without preparation, but she "crossed over" and waited for her permission. It was a dynasty that had been omitted by history, a time and space that was completely unfamiliar but had the people she was most familiar with.
What her journey through time requires is courage, love, and - abandonment of the world!
Are you willing? Or are you unwilling? When she was still hesitating about which tie to let go, it was good that someone else made the decision for her.
Really... Not bad.