Passerby, in a Hurry

After reading the whole story, I feel sorry for the heroine. I don't know why so many people say that she is coquettish and pretentious. The hero takes the initiative in all interactions with the hero. The heroine seems cool and cold, ready to leave at any time, but is always manipulated by the hero. The hero is chauvinistic and always aloof. He often comes home late after marriage. He always goes on business trips at short notice. We have been together for so many years. I didn't know that the heroine suffers from menstrual cramps. During the New Year, he accompanied the second heroine to watch the snow and caught a cold. The second heroine also committed suicide by the hero. The female lead was hospitalized after giving birth. She went to the rooftop and saw the male lead leaning on the second female lead, with his hand around her waist. The male lead also said that they were innocent. He wore lipstick on his body when going out to socialize, and carried the smell of female perfume. He did not take the initiative to explain to the female lead. The author did not explain later. Readers also believed the male lead's words. On New Year's Eve, he and his sister-in-law had a lively chat. Neither the male lead's brother nor the female lead could get in the conversation (another side story states that the male lead likes his sister-in-law). The relationship between the heroine and the heroine's ex-boyfriend is often sarcastic. She looks down on the heroine's work. She always wants the heroine to give in to him and cannot escape his control. Just like the heroine said, he treats her like a pet. When she is happy, she teases her, and when she is unhappy, she throws it away. When she is interested, she starts teasing her again as if nothing happened. Every time they quarrel, the heroine gets sulky and goes back to take care of the hero. It is also inexplicable to chase his wife at the crematorium. During the divorce, the hero seems to have been greatly wronged. She looks like she doesn't want to look back, so she starts chasing his wife in the next chapter. The heroine is stunned and always rolls into bed with the hero half-heartedly. It's a bit pyromaniacal. The most speechless thing is that the heroine's ex-boyfriend, boss, best friend, and mother all think that the heroine is ungrateful. She feels that no one thinks from the heroine's point of view. The heroine's mother also said, "He is just a bit more handsome and has more money, which makes you distrust him so much." What a classic It is similar to the sentence that he just made a mistake that all men make. The heroine deliberately ran out for training because she misunderstood that the hero wanted to get married. She didn't run far away and couldn't be strong. The hero blamed the heroine for not trusting him and ridiculed the heroine. The heroine began to reflect. However, the hero just didn't give the heroine a sense of security.

I really like this book. Although the male and female protagonists are very awkward, they are very interesting. It's interesting to watch them bicker. I really don't understand the people who criticize the female protagonist. How can the breakdown of the marriage be the fault of one person? One detail is that Anruo's colleague in the company wanted to jump off a building. She advised her not to take men as everything. She had a good friend who had grown up and committed suicide by jumping off a building for a man. But the man was not sad at all and his life was very happy. Only his parents were suffering. I think Anruo's lack of emotional security had something to do with this. It's not the heroine's fault that the first marriage broke up. She was awkward, but the hero really didn't pay much attention to the marriage. He knew that the heroine was insecure and didn't think about changing it. It was obvious that both of them had problems, but it was too much to scold the heroine and put all the fault on her. The heroine also cared about the hero. He was sick and tried her best to take care of him. When he said he wanted to eat fish ball soup, she got off work early to make it for him. There were many small actions like this that showed that she cared about the abruptness of their marriage. At that time, they had no solid emotional foundation. These two people were also awkward, which led to the breakdown of their marriage. It was only after they separated that they saw the goodness of each other. Because it was described from the perspective of the heroine, many things are one-sided. It is really biased to say that the heroine is sick and unworthy of the hero. Finally, I really like this book. The details are plain and true, and it is worth carefully reading the awkward taste of these two couples. They are not perfect people, but they are both cute.

After reading it, I realized that Anruo was a little bit pretentious, but Xiaocheng actually enjoyed it. If Anruo was obedient and submissive to her, he would definitely not be interested anymore. This is how the two of them get along, and both of them love each other so much that they can't express their feelings. Moreover, the problems between them have always been easily resolved, and the knot is clear in the ending, so Xiao Cheng is more attentive and An Ruo is more honest occasionally. So I think they are really well matched. Thank you to the author for really depicting a group of very real people and a bunch of imperfect but interesting emotions. I like it so much. According to the author, she did not have an outline framework, but actually wrote step by step. This feeling is so wonderful. It really feels like the character has a soul and is choosing his own life. I think this is also a sense of fate.

Actually, although it is said that Cheng Shaochen has no feelings for Zi Yan, I still think his behavior is very bad. The heroine went to the rooftop and saw the two of them hugging each other. It is definitely not fake. I wonder what pure male-female relationship would hug each other, so I think the male protagonist is a bit scumbag. The heroine is okay. She didn't have anything to do with her ex-boyfriend. Alas, this is what stuck after watching the ending.

I finished reading it some time ago. I really like reading this kind of pyrotechnics. It is a classic indeed.

I watched it again, why do I care so much about these two awkward people?

Although it is ancient, the true goddess Piaoda [Cat's Claw] Like An Ruo.

It's 2023 and I finally found this book again! My favorite Cheng Shaochen

My favorite heroine in novels used to be Tu Ran, but now it's Tu Ran and Shen Anruo

The details of the relationship between men and women are written down, which is very touching. But after all, novels are more perfect than reality.

Yu found that he had a special liking for Ningba literature. When looking for a book following the copywriting in my memory. I browsed through several recommended posts on Tushu, and after giving up on the book I was originally looking for, I happened to choose "Passenger, Hurry". Now it seems that it is really unintentional. Although "Passenger, Hurry" was written at the beginning of the millennium, it seems to be of very high quality now! The author's writing is really strong, and he doesn't look like a novice at all (Passenger seems to be Piao Axi's first novel). The novel's structure, use of techniques, writing style, and writing rhythm are all very good. Of course, it may also be because the author's presentation of some views and values ​​in the article are really in line with some of my own values, so I have a strong preference for this novel. But is reading novels just for fun? The wife with free meals and delicious food in the full text is simply an angel, right? I won't go into too much detail here about the brief introduction of Passer. In a nutshell, it is a story about a pair of urban elites who got together confusedly, and then separated due to their respective dignity and ego, and finally the two finally compromised together. The story itself may seem a bit cliché now, and many people may think that there is something wrong with both the male and female protagonists. But for me, the story between Anruo and Xiaoer is quite complete, and the two are in one pot and one cover. There are some minor flaws that I really don't need to comment on as a spectator. Yu said: The most interesting part of this book is actually the relationship and pull between the characters with Wen Jingya (sister-in-law) as the core. Ah Piao wrote in the postscript of Passerby: "... In the end, the two found that even if they did not love each other, the other party had been deeply integrated into their lives and had become a habit. It is not that simple to give up." I think this is actually the starting point for A Piao's creation of "Passenger" - the impact of habits in marriage on the relationship between husband and wife (oh my god, it seems like an innovative point in the thesis, help me🆘After I finished writing the book review, I went to CNKI to search for relevant papers, I think it will be very exciting). However, because creation is not completely controlled by reason, hands, and outlines, the relationship between An Ruo and Xiao Er written by A Piao actually deviates quite a lot from the planned route when setting off (it seems like this to the fish. But the eyes of the fish are fish eyes, so... Friends who have their own opinions are welcome to discuss rationally... ^^｜P. S.: The fish is looking at the online version of jj). However, what is very interesting is that passers-by actually expressed the view that "habits in marriage have a huge impact on the relationship between husband and wife." But it is not expressed through the two protagonists An Ruo and Cheng Shaochen, but through the chapter "Extra: Childhood Sweethearts". The changes in the relationship between Jingya and Cheng Shaoqing are simply the best explanation of "even if they don't love each other, the other person has been deeply integrated into their lives and become a habit, and it is not that simple to give up." (But it is not written in detail, after all, it is a side story. To a certain extent, the relationship between the sister-in-law and the eldest brother as a side story is quite like a point of view output. Because there is not much detailed information to support it, it is just what A Piao says). Due to the relatively limited length of the extra chapter, the story between Jingya and Big Brother is left blank, making it more intriguing. Of course, to a certain extent, this is also because the character of Big Brother is indeed a controversial figure and his behavior is quite "remarkable", so it is also quite intriguing. The same goes for Miss Zi Yan. As Jingya is the recipient of most of her eldest brother's actions, her experience is more debatable. Put "the impact of habits on the relationship between husband and wife" aside for now. Jingya's personal emotional experience is closely related to "habits". Jingya and her eldest brother were in an unequal position from the beginning. Jing Ya and Xiao Er are the same age, and they have known each other since they were working together. As the younger brother's brother, the eldest brother is actually no different from Jingya's eldest brother. The social relationship between the two begins with the eldest brother in the upper position and the younger sister in the lower position. She hung in a tree, and the eldest brother served as a meat mat; she and the second eldest brother had no food to eat, and the eldest brother cooked; she and the second one were lost in the mountains, but the eldest brother found them and took them home. As Jingya grew up, she also grew up looking up to her elder brother when she was a student. Jingya's grades were not outstanding, and the topics she didn't know were taught by her eldest brother; during the flag-raising ceremony, she was in the audience while her eldest brother stood on the stage. These things are definitely not just the one or two things mentioned in the article, but every moment in life. And these bits and pieces, in turn, accumulate into habits. Yu believes that Jingya's feelings for her elder brother are actually a habit in itself. Jingya is used to having her big brother in her life, used to her big brother helping her solve problems in life, used to her big brother leading her, used to her big brother being in the upper position while she is in the lower position. Love as a fledgling is always closely intertwined with admiration, dependence and habits. As for Jingya, she is a lazy person who does not change her habits. Many things do not change at will for her. Therefore, as she grows older, her love pattern still remains that of a fledgling. But for the elder brother who is older than Jingya, when he discovers Jingya's love for him, his understanding of love may be completely different from Jingya's understanding. To him, Jingya's love was, as he said, just a sister's admiration for her brother, a kind of affectionate affection that excluded the sexual desire between men and women. If you speculate about the eldest brother in a more vicious way, maybe the eldest brother even avoids this love - he may think that Jingya is doing orthopedics on him, and thinks that this love will harm him. Therefore, she and he are separated by thousands of rivers and mountains on the road of love. In addition, Jingya has always been passive in this relationship. The only active thing she did was to silently watch and talk to the waiter. One stayed there and watched silently, while the other tried his best to walk away from her. The closer we are in family relationships, the more separated we are in love. (Here is a guess. Maybe the eldest brother and Zi Yan had this reason in the beginning. In order to push the "sister" away from each other in love, he chose to fall in love with Zi Yan. He also doubted Zi Yan's life experience and suspected that she had a conspiracy to "secretly fall in love" with her brother. In addition, Zi Yan is beautiful. , Falling in love with her is not bad for me. I didn't expect that I fell into it in the end. If this hypothesis is true, it can only be said that the eldest brother really deserves it. He is so pitiful for us Jingya... A completely innocent person.) A very interesting point in the relationship between Jingya-Cheng Shaoqing-Ziyan is that the eldest brother may agree that Ziyan is not the destroyer of the family, but a joiner of the family. Ziyan is his spouse of equal status, while Jingya is the "sister" one level below them. For him, there is no conflict between the two identities. He may have always had a slight contempt for Jingya and never looked at her seriously. It wasn't until Jingya said something like that when he was unconscious that she treated him differently. To put it sadly, that was probably the first time Jingya really appeared in his eyes. Perhaps it was after Ayu was born that he truly changed his mind and regarded Jingya as someone with equal status to him. Ayu's birth forced him to face the fact that Jingya, who gave birth to Ayu, was the mother of his child and his equal. It wasn't until that moment that Jingya became someone he would fall in love with. Looking back from this point of view, Jingqing and his wife's emotional experience completely confirms the initial point - habits have a huge impact on the relationship between husband and wife. Jingya was able to finally "see the moonlight when the clouds cleared" because of her habitual love, and her eldest brother finally saw Jingya because of his change of habitual thinking. Habits are amazing. Writing this, Yu really feels sorry for Jingya, because she is really a very good person. And as people with God's perspective, we know that she really likes him very much, even - she really loves him, loves him very much. But Jingya might not care, because she got what she wanted in the end anyway, which is not a victory. On the positive side, their romance has just begun. Fish wishes Ms. Wen Jingya that she will get her wish and live a happy life. I am also grateful to the author Piao Axi for bringing such a good work, which made Yu have an epiphany about marriage and the relationship between husband and wife while reading. Thanks for meeting.

It's been ten years, a passerby in a hurry The first romance book I bought

I read this book a long time ago, but I didn't feel anything about some of the old movies and songs in it. I just passed it by reading it. Recently, I suddenly became obsessed with old movies and old songs, and fell in love with Anita Mui. I was searching for books I had collected before, and suddenly found that in this book, Sister Mei's Time flies, there are many old movies that I have already watched, and old songs that I have listened to. There is a wonderful feeling of fate.

I love passing by in a hurry. Thank you Piao Da.

Looking at the previous episode, Cheng Shaochen likes his sister-in-law, right?

It's really well written.

I watched it several times a long time ago, and I'm going to read it again. I really like Shen Anruo.

My favorite novel, I will read it again

It has been many years since I read this article. I don't know how many times I have read this article. I feel that Shen Anruo's personality is too similar to mine. Jinjiang's first comment is dedicated to my favorite article.

Ahhhhhh! Jiang Haoyang is really so handsome! !

This is the first time I've seen an article written so long ago. It's so well written.

Passers-by may not be in a hurry, lovers will eventually meet again! [Purple Sugar]kswl

I still remember that this book was one of my favorite BG novels when I was in high school. I read a lot of novels at that time, but these are the only BG novels that I can always remember that I have always liked. This book written by Dada is really beautiful and meaningful. I was very moved when I first read it~ Now I suddenly want to leave a message here to express my love. I still remember that I read it in the 3G Bookstore~ Hahaha. I really liked the characters of the male and female protagonists when I saw it. I really appreciate this book. For me, who has not read BG novels for a long time. This book by Nai is really good~ I really want to tell Nai that I like it. It's great to be able to talk to the author. But maybe it's too late and I won't read the comments anymore. /(ㄒOㄒ)/~~ I also like the pairing of Tan Fang and Wang Haoyang here. Alas~ It's a pity that there are no more extra stories about them╮(╯_╰)╭ Life after marriage is amazing~

I really like this book and have read it several times. When will it be made into a TV series? Sit back and wait

I read this article in high school, and now I have graduated from college. Haha, it has been many years. I will come back to read it from time to time. Will I open a new pit? Also, your official account hasn't been updated for a long time. Maybe you forgot your password?

I have read it many times, it is my favorite novel

Damn, can you sort out the situation? Is it Shuangjie? Case and Runyu have never been together or had feelings before, right?