From childhood to adulthood, we spent a long time learning to persevere, but it took me a long time to tell the story of giving up. Giving up is not another way of perseverance. Everyone in the book is not a supporting character, just like no one is the real protagonist in life. Everyone has encountered obstacles, which are not worth mentioning to others, but are a matter of life and death for themselves. Dali uses his own perspective to see the joy and sorrow, love and being loved in everyone's life. And she and Shen Yue were like two wandering souls trapped on a desert island. When she met Wang Dongyue, they fell into her fragile life like gods. Destruction or redemption? This is a story that spans more than twenty years. We see the panic, confusion, gain, and loss faced by those born in the 1980s and 1980s in China. The way they deal with things is also so free and individual. Dali finds his own release and liberation in walking, self-salvation, self-healing, and finally learns to give up after all kinds of not giving up. I would like to dedicate this book to you and me who have also experienced confusion, simplicity, gain, and loss. If you also resonate with me, please support me! !