When you are just starting to fall in love, you always have some illusions about love. You envy the prince and Cinderella's hand, and you long for a knight-princess-like love. However, youth always inadvertently shatters dreams. You may fall in love with one or two people, but have to let them go. So you suffer, are unwilling, and become obsessed, but in the end you will find that those things you can't let go are just passers-by in life. This is growth. In fact, your love really begins when you meet the right person.