Infatuated with Life

I accidentally came across this article in the comments of an article. A man in his late 40s actually opened Jinjiang and spent two days forgetting food and sleep to finish it. I cried many times while reading it, fearing that his wife would find out that he had pretended to yawn and got away with it. I never thought that stories so similar to ours happened so close to me. Your story is in Shanghai and we are in Suzhou. Your age difference and blood relationship are almost exactly the same as ours. She went to elementary school, I went to high school, she went to college, I entered the society, she worked, and I got married (otherwise, how could it be such a coincidence, my marriage age is so similar to that of Cheng Qihang). Seeing the entanglement between Cheng and Lin, it was like the love and hate between me and her were replayed in front of my eyes. I have now reached the end of the book. Now that you are old, I envy that your story ends with HE. Our story is probably the BE ending of another time and space. From the article, it is inferred that the author (selfishly thinking it is Lin Yue) is about 50 years old. She can be considered my eldest sister. Please tell me. I would like to express my sincere admiration for your Qihang. He is really brave. I can completely sympathize with his previous worries. Please continue with another ending of our story not far away (I shed tears again while typing this line).

I finished reading this book in one night. This book was written by the author in 2008. It has been 17 years this year. The author is now in his forties. I don't know how I feel when I look back at this relationship. The author and I are almost from the same generation. Our views on marriage and love have been hugely different in these two decades of rapid development - the most significant one is: I no longer think that love is everything to a woman or the most important thing. In the author's story, love runs through her boyhood, youth and mature period, affecting her entire mind. I don't read much literature from the 70s and 80s. The one that stands out in my memory is Doudou's "The Distant Savior". It seems that the love of this era is in my impression. To dedicate oneself to death is romantic, and that is what women most long for and yearn for. When you meet him, you can give up everything. Is love a lie? Is a man someone you can rely on wholeheartedly? Should a woman be a pious saint in love, regardless of whether the other party responds or not? In the article, it seems to me that the male protagonist has achieved worldly success in his life. He is successful in his studies and career, and he chooses women with status. It is true that he may not be selfish, but in this whole relationship, he will not devote himself wholeheartedly. A lot of energy will be put into career, social interaction, and work. He enjoys good social treatment, social status and the love of two women. He is a vested interest. When the female protagonist is about to withdraw and choose other men, the male protagonist begins to be unable to restrain the relationship. Can this be understood as hurting his interests and offending him? Forgive me for replacing his love and affection with interests. Love is sacrifice, fulfillment, and letting go. It is not just a superficial possessiveness. The male protagonist is actually a person who is extremely sensitive to his own interests. To tease the female protagonist when she seems to be leaving him, in my opinion, this is a despicable behavior. As for the heroine, she loves the hero very much, so much that she has to sacrifice her youth and lose herself - because all the major choices she makes revolve around boys. Every time I want to say, why bother! She walked over wearing a mask. Her heavy youth seemed so worthless to me! For a man! What is love? What if you have to sacrifice yourself to sacrifice love? Love or love that is not "me"? ! Especially when the heroine devotes herself to the second boyfriend, I feel very uncomfortable. The heroine's view of love at this time has some tendency towards depression and self-mutilation. "Sacrifice" is a way for her to express her feelings. She cannot repay the love of the second boyfriend, so she wants to sacrifice her own feelings, her own. Of course, she still respects herself. Maybe the author's story is an example. Maybe there is a feeling in the world that "asks what love is in the world and teaches you whether life and death are mutual." Men also have it. I can only think so because I don't understand love. The above is the view derived from my view of love. I reject "sacrificial" love. I have given up the last family and friendship in life. Is this really worth it? This is something I can't understand, but I respect it. Maybe there is such great love in the world, but the reality is very real. How long can passion exist? Today, twenty years later, having lost its beauty and passion, what will love look like again?

Now it is 2023, and I accidentally discovered this novel. I didn't read many novels when I was young. I stayed up all night, stopped working, and took my children to school without any intention. I finished it in the past two days (because I wanted to see the ending, and the ending was HE). I couldn't calm down for a long time. True love comes first. The author may be nearly 50. I sincerely hope that she and her lover can live long and healthy. Thank you for letting me see such an excellent writing style and such a touching story.

After reading this book, I felt a lot of emotion, but what I want to say most is: I am willing to send my best wishes to Cheng Qihang and Lin Yue. There are too few people in this world who can find their true love and grow old together. For such pure and beautiful feelings that transcend all material things, most people have no position or reason to criticize or despise, but more should be tolerant or even blessed. Thanks to these two, others can truly feel the existence of true love and the beauty of this world. One last thing: I hope you two live a safe and happy life. P. S Some people guess that the author is Lin Yue, others guess that it is Jiao Jiao, but I prefer to guess that it is the result of the love between the two. Cheng Qihang and Lin Yue are both so good. I have always felt that the goodness of these two people should be fixed in material form and continued, otherwise it would be a waste. (Laugh)

2022 Is coming to an end. Lin Yue and Qihang have been together for another year. Best wishes!

I really feel that it was written with very sincere feelings, otherwise it would not be so touching. At the end, I just want to say that this kind of love really exists, so strong, so profound, that even the reader couldn't help but say, let this pair of lovers finally get married. Now I sincerely wish you happiness and happiness.

This true love story has shocked me for many years. I always have a feeling that this article was written by Yue Yue and Qi Hang. Although top students from Tongji majored in science, their writing skills are impressive. They definitely surpass the so-called writers from Peking University liberal arts who are popular nowadays, because they do it for composition and to earn royalties. And I know that Yan Xinyu has only published this one article and has not published a book. This is what he truly did for love. I have to re-read it almost every year. It is the most touching, best-written, and most heart-wrenching beautiful romance I have ever read. Over the years, no article has been able to surpass this article. So I went to Himalayas, the largest audio platform, to search for it, hoping that someone could resonate with me and record this article, but it just failed. I suddenly came up with the idea of recording and broadcasting myself. Because of my love for broadcasting since I was a child, my favorite voice has appeared on Himalaya. Friends who are interested can search for it and use headphones to listen before going to bed. I secretly think that it has a different artistic conception than reading the original book. I tried my best to use a deep voice to understand Yan Xinyu's affectionate writing, so it will never be a lively radio drama. I hope Yan Xinyu can also hear her works that I broadcast with my heart, and hope that I can express her inner voice and his true feelings.

It's been the second time I've seen it. The last time I saw it was 15 years ago. . . . After watching it for so long, I was still moved by the love between Lin Yue and Cheng Qihang. I hope that two people can be happy in parallel time and space (づ￣3￣)づ╭?~. . . I feel so uncomfortable and reluctant to let it end. Recently, I have been thinking about Lin Yue and Cheng Qihang.

Thank you for the story, it's really great! In the part where my uncle got married and the heroine was the bridesmaid, it hit my heart so hard (I cried while watching it) I have always felt that Li Ying's perspective on their relationship is explained very well (especially when there is Jiayuan in the back, and what Li Ying sees from the onlooker's perspective). And I think grandpa's presence is very strong in the whole story. Grandma, as the first direct relative who discovered them, had a great attitude in the end. Ah, what a great story, thank you again! ! !

At 12:56 on August 2, 2025, I wish the young couple to grow old together, life after life, and live forever!

On the last day of 2018, I finished reading this novel. When I knew that this novel was true, I was deeply moved and admired. I admire the author. He really has the courage to write this article and tell us the real stories of himself or the people around him. I have read many forbidden love novels (why do I like reading them? Some people say that it is not allowed because of love. It is more sad!). After reading this one, I couldn't let it go for a long time. Firstly, I admire the author's courage and truth. Secondly, I was moved by the love between Lin Yue and Cheng Qihang. How should I say, I can accept it. After all, life is only a few decades, and you never know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident. Live your life well every day, I believe that the worldly view is no match for two true loving hearts. Sometimes it is because we care too much about other people's views that we become timid. I believe that Lin Yue and Cheng Qihang, whom I like, are still happy now. I hope that you will have good years, peace and joy. Now I am listening to Lin Shanshan's "As Long as You Care" and writing this review. I did feel heartbroken and reluctant while reading it. Fortunately, the ending is good. You must stay happy!

It's not easy for you to be happy. The author would also be happier!

The story is very interesting. The heroine who is born for love deserves everyone's love. Because I will like such a heroine who is desperate for love. Naturally, I will not like the male protagonist who is hesitant. If it were not for the heroine's tolerance countless times and the support of the people around him, this love would be fruitless in the end.

Hey, come back and have a look. I really want to know how you are doing. This is my second update.

I also think it's God's will for the two of them to be together! ! Fate!

I am deeply moved by your love. Life is so short. I envy you for finding unforgettable love for each other. I will always support you and stay happy. Sister, the author, I wish you health and happiness and stay together for a lifetime.

In fact, this kind of relationship is even more difficult to change. Even if love is gone, there is still family affection. What's more, we are already middle-aged, so what big changes can happen. What's more, it's unforgettable love. True love has no regrets, and I wish all lovers in the world to get married eventually

Cheng Qihang's perspective allowed me to connect the whole text more clearly, and some of the entanglements I had in my heart were completely relieved. Sincere blessings. This article is really well written. I thought a lot while reading it. Thank you to the author.

I watched it several times, but I still can't let it go. I feel sorry for Lin Yue and Cheng Qihang.

I was moved by Lin Yue's persistence, Qi Hang's sense of responsibility, admired Lin Yue's flexibility, and admired Qi Hang's maturity. Too many people find someone to marry and live at the right age, but few people stay with someone whose knowledge, experience, personality, etc. Are so compatible until they grow old. This cup of love wine eventually becomes a fine wine that lasts longer. When they smell it, they pursue it. Even after going through all kinds of hardships, fortunately, they do not miss it. This year is 2018. In the past two days, I often wonder if Lin Yue and Cheng Qihang have a child? I guess I don't have to live in separate places anymore, right? Are the two happily together? After thinking about it again, no matter whether they have children or not, no matter whether they are together less or more apart, they are very lucky to finally be together after overcoming so many obstacles. I believe they will be very happy together. They may occasionally quarrel and have worldly prejudices, but with their wisdom and complementary personalities, they will definitely be able to resolve them, and those who cannot be resolved will definitely reconcile with themselves. It's great that there is such a feeling in the world, and I am very grateful to the author for telling us this story, which made me believe in love again. Finally, I sincerely wish them a happy and stable life together.

Although at first, like most people, I felt that this kind of love was not tolerated by the world. But I saw the perseverance, restraint and pain of the two people. There were many unethical marriages in ancient times, and they were not that bad. I still hope to be together. We only last a few decades, so we can live as happily as we want.

A love that is not tolerated by the secular world, during which the two of them endured, restrained and struggled. Seeing how painful the two of them were during the process, I really thought they were going to be. It is understandable that the male protagonist chooses to get married to escape his feelings for the female protagonist. After going in circles for so many years, it must be a deep fate that the two of them can be together in the end. Many people will never have love in their lifetime. It is not easy to be able to fall in love in this mortal world. I sincerely wish you two together until old age! Thank you to the author for bringing such a touching story, and I hope all lovers in the world will eventually get married.

Very touching story, the author is great

Regardless of whether this story is true or false, I sincerely wish you the most pure love. If true love among blood relatives is really the cleanest and purest.

Why do I think the author is Jiaojiao?

In fact, I usually read this kind of novels for entertainment. And this book is because it is the author's real experience that I couldn't help but comment on and give my true blessings. Because this kind of emotion is so precious and rare that it is very common to see it in novels, but in reality, it is really the sense of destiny that "fiction reflects reality". Nowadays, the Internet is developed and people are impetuous. Such pure love is almost impossible. I have always had a pessimistic attitude towards love. Desire but dare not try easily. Some suitors are very... So it's because your love really exists, that's why it's shocking. It took me two days to read the full article and all the comments. My heart couldn't be calm for a long time. I especially want to know how Xinyu is doing now. I even want to see your daily life occasionally. Even if there is no passion, ordinary daily sharing is fine. I saw someone suggested opening weibo before. I would be very happy if it happened. Of course, I feel a sense of disappointment after not seeing the author come to chat for so many years. Because it's really been too long. How have you been doing for so long? Of course, I have absolutely no intention of inquiring into privacy, but even a few words can make me feel that such a precious love is still going on, just like a novel that continues into reality and will always have a follow-up, waiting for updates. But I believe you will always be happy! It's good to choose your own lifestyle, and be happy in reality. Of course, all of this is what I mean as a reader. Xin Yuda does not need to regard this kind of thing as a task or a burden on his heart, just do whatever he wants. If you want to come up and chat happily, we will be very happy. Of course, it is also good to have fun offline! I feel like you are about to reach retirement age, and I happened to read your story, so I can't wait to express these expectations. It seems to have become some kind of love comfort in reality. It makes people feel: Ah, there is still pure, pure, true love in this world that continues. Best wishes, 999999999!

Some people reprimanded Cheng Qihang for getting married and having sex, which was a sign of cowardice on his part, but I think it was just a sign of his maturity, responsibility, and bravery. Twenty-year-old Lin Yue is passionate about defending her love, even if she is against the whole world. But it is touching that Cheng Qihang, who is thirty-year-old, has been separated for ten years. If she is still as careless as the heroine, isn't it a bit childish? Cheng Qihang didn't give up Lin Yue because of cowardice, fear of social rejection, or unwillingness to give up what he had. If so, wouldn't it be braver for him many years later, when outsiders think he has a successful career and a happy family, to give up these things to be with Lin Yue?