"The number one guy in our school's ranking list actually started chasing girls. Why isn't that person me?" A freshman girl read the campus forum and started screaming. As a result, the girl being chased endured the envy, jealousy and... Hate of thousands of girls.
However, this is not the case. It's the woman who chases the man first.
Flirting with girls, flirting with guys, banging on the wall, forced kissing, etc., You name it.