To love means to suffer. In order not to be tortured, you should not love. But you will be tortured by lovelessness. So love is torture, and not loving is torture. Torture is torture, love is for the sake of happiness. So happiness also becomes torture, but torture makes people unhappy. So in order to be unhappy, you have to love. Love brings torture, torture from too much joy, I wish you understood what I said - Woody Allen