She is simple and unremarkable, and just wants to spend four years of college in a stable manner.
He loved her so much that he gave up everything, but he always came back sad.
He loved her but always kept away from her. When she wanted to leave, he said domineeringly that unless she died, she would be his for the rest of her life.
He just wanted to protect her, to protect her quietly, and would rather put everything away.
When love gradually becomes clear, it is still the most original question, choice.