To all the strict Tiger Moms and Eagle Dads out there, I'm just a Cat Mom.
I don't want to be like a coach, training children to run in the direction of gold medals, nor am I willing to be like an animal trainer, holding food in one hand and a whip in the other, inducing and forcing children to perform various difficult actions for the audience in order to gain the applause of others. I prefer to let my child choose the path he wants to take. I hope he can engage in what he likes in the future. Of course, I will tell my children my experiences and lessons in a gentle way, explain right and wrong to them clearly, and also give my suggestions in a timely and careful manner. But I won't force my children to do anything, because I don't think I have the power at all. I think the child is another person completely independent of me. He is not me, nor is he his father. He will definitely have a life that is completely different from ours. To my child, I am only grateful, for the happiness and joy he brings me, and for allowing me to become a mother. My child will always be the greatest pride and the greatest success in my life, no matter whether he is an ordinary person or a celebrity in the future.
My son was born on a winter morning, just when the sun was rising, so he was named Lu Chenyang, and his nickname was Yangyang...