Old days
Hanshan asked Shide: There are people in the world who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, belittle me, despise me, hate me, and lie to me. How should I deal with them?
Shi De said: Just tolerate him, let him, let him go, avoid him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him no more, wait for a few more years and you can see him.