We usually say, if you can't hold the sand, why not spread it? No matter how hard you tighten your grip, the sand will eventually flow away from your fingers. Instead of holding on painfully and feeling helplessly the process of going from something to nothing, it would be better to be decisive and let go directly. But there is such a kind of person who will not look back until he hits the wall. If he hits the wall, he will continue to walk. The most painful thing in a person's life is that as we grow older, when we recall the past, we can only lament "what if then". Unfortunately, there is no if. No matter pain or happiness, these can only become the past after all. I always think that we must be different from others. Indeed, what is the probability that so many bloody plots will happen to the same person? Should I complain about God's injustice? Or should we thank fate for its gift? I am most afraid of leaving regrets for myself, but there are always regrets. Later, I finally understood that as long as there is a choice, there must be regrets. From the moment we met, are I who love you and you who love me just our wishes? Four years later, will you come back? If I don't marry you, will you marry me? Even if you die, will you still remember it? Spring, summer, autumn and winter are with you, so where are you now? I keep persisting and working hard, but what will be the outcome? People will change after all, be calm, gentle and calm, thank you. Maybe you need such a story to help you understand yourself and others better, and bring about your own spiritual growth. I think it would be extremely happy to be able to cry and say, "Although I have shortcomings, I have no regrets."