Loving and being loved are both a kind of warm ability. With this ability, we care for someone with all our blood, and we accept the other person's full love with longing. Unfortunately, this ability is not innate. We must observe, learn, and experience it in life before we can finally master it.
Four years ago, at the wedding, Song Huanyan complained to Jingyan with tears in her eyes, "You told me not to nod to things you don't understand. I've been with you for a year, but I don't know you at all. How could you ask me to nod and say yes to you in front of the priest?"
Four years later, at the wedding again, Song Huanyan smiled slightly at her old friend, "Long time no see."
Four years ago, at the wedding that had already turned into a mess, Jingyan asked calmly, "What do you want?"
Four years later, they reunited at the wedding and faced the former lover who had long since faded and was now able to stand alone, but still said "Long time no see."
When we don't understand love, we are brave but lose both sides. When we understand love, we are able to protect our lover and ourselves, but we also lose our original courage. What is the best way to love and be loved?