The protagonist Qiao Li grew up in an environment where her parents' roles were mismatched, her grandfather's family was feudal, superstitious, and boys were valued over girls, and her grandmother's family had complicated relationships. Everything here created her timid, cautious, suspicious, and aggressive character. After experiencing repeated struggles and escapes, repeated pain and helplessness, whether good or bad, or even anxiety and depression, Qiao Li was finally able to face everything, face and accept herself, grow into what she wanted, be herself without any scruples, and be happy without being affected by the disputes between her parents.
"This will eventually become a thing of the past."
"For myself, I must forgive you. A person cannot keep a poisonous snake in his chest forever; he cannot get up every night and plant thorns in the garden of his soul."