Within three years, I was going to marry myself—it was decided the moment Xerox set foot on American soil from SFO Airport. However, this is a Beijing girl with petty bourgeoisie, freshness, obsessive-compulsive disorder and mysophobia. We went on countless blind dates, but never succeeded. At the age of 33, she finally gave in and agreed to get the certificate with her "Phoenix Man" ex-boyfriend, but when it came time to register, she still backed down. Then he resigned and went abroad at all costs, vowing to marry an enviable husband. However, the hardships of the first-generation immigrants' struggle, the deep cultural barriers they experienced, and the pain of language barriers they experienced made Xerox's cross-border search for a husband full of tears and laughter.