As time enters the 21st century, under the impact of the commodity economy, various new things gradually emerge, and the new term "leftover women" has become a ridiculing sentence often quoted in media reports. The author herself is also a member of the "leftover women" family. She has experienced all kinds of "blind dates" that she had to go through in order to complete the important matter of marriage. She has met all kinds of people. As the saying goes, "the same rice can support all kinds of people."
The characters in the article are basically real-life prototypes, and have only been slightly processed. Dear readers, please do not take them for granted. I hope to get everyone's support and resonance.
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I agree with your point of view: Don't get married for the sake of getting married!
作者大大,好恐怖啊!
I seem to know the continuation of this story. Have you found the right person?
I got married on a blind date, and my husband was my type. I used to think that my marriage was happy and perfect, but he cheated on me when I was pregnant. It was God who protected me and the baby from death, so when the baby was eight months old, I discovered that in the chat history between him and his partner, he That's what I said, because we got married on a blind date, so we don't have a strong emotional foundation... To be honest, I was really shocked. In fact, I want to say that if you don't want to marry me, don't get married. My family and I didn't force you. Besides, it was your family who suggested getting married soon when I wanted to wait and see. Well, his and I have pretty good families, but our family didn't make many demands. Basically, the cost was half per person. Especially one of the cases was for an old relative and my colleague, both of whom were from our family. After getting married, he didn't worry about it, and his parents didn't care about us. My parents took care of me during my pregnancy. He was on a business trip for almost a year, and his parents never took care of me, even though their home was only 30 minutes away from ours. Instead, I often went to visit the old man and buy things because he was on a business trip. So I was really speechless for someone like him who got a good deal and behaved well. After he was discovered, his father's first question was who he wanted. Her mother's reaction was, don't bother me with your young people's affairs. It's funny that his partner's name is Shanshan. He told me that I didn't spend any money on her, so I should forgive him. I really regret it now, so girls, please get to know his family atmosphere and their family's outlook on life before getting married. You must know that when the introducer introduced them, they seemed to be a very serious family.
I agree with your point of view: Don't get married for the sake of getting married!
作者大大,好恐怖啊!
I seem to know the continuation of this story. Have you found the right person?
I got married on a blind date, and my husband was my type. I used to think that my marriage was happy and perfect, but he cheated on me when I was pregnant. It was God who protected me and the baby from death, so when the baby was eight months old, I discovered that in the chat history between him and his partner, he That's what I said, because we got married on a blind date, so we don't have a strong emotional foundation... To be honest, I was really shocked. In fact, I want to say that if you don't want to marry me, don't get married. My family and I didn't force you. Besides, it was your family who suggested getting married soon when I wanted to wait and see. Well, his and I have pretty good families, but our family didn't make many demands. Basically, the cost was half per person. Especially one of the cases was for an old relative and my colleague, both of whom were from our family. After getting married, he didn't worry about it, and his parents didn't care about us. My parents took care of me during my pregnancy. He was on a business trip for almost a year, and his parents never took care of me, even though their home was only 30 minutes away from ours. Instead, I often went to visit the old man and buy things because he was on a business trip. So I was really speechless for someone like him who got a good deal and behaved well. After he was discovered, his father's first question was who he wanted. Her mother's reaction was, don't bother me with your young people's affairs. It's funny that his partner's name is Shanshan. He told me that I didn't spend any money on her, so I should forgive him. I really regret it now, so girls, please get to know his family atmosphere and their family's outlook on life before getting married. You must know that when the introducer introduced them, they seemed to be a very serious family.