The way we love others is largely learned from our parents. Muzi doesn't know how to love because she has never received love from her parents. So she gave all the love she had accumulated in her life to Jing Zekai, hoping that he would love her, understand her, protect her, and prevent her from being lonely, homeless, and helpless. But what he always gave her was calmness and self-control.
Later, Muzi finally understood that if you want others to love you, you must first love yourself.
If love is around, please remember to love deeply; if love is not around, please remember to love yourself.